As explained in my Last Post regardfing Phimosis i do have a Dick which itd like to keep >.<

and for that exact reason i will never be able to wear Female Underwear or Bikinis :c
While Female Underwear i can atleast compensate for via Man Slips (because fuck Boxers theyre cringe even before i found out i was Trans >:c) but its very Frustrating that i cant do anything for Bikinis :c

Especially as someone who wants a Smol Boobs, Huge, Dick and Big Butt Combo and would love to be A Cup or Max B Cup due to me being Enby and also liking to wear Mens Clothes ts very annoying overall to be in such Situations :c

  • Kayday@lemmy.worldEnglish
    11·
    14 days ago

    I don’t intend to keep my thing, but I have been wearing these for about 2 years while also having said thing.

    Don’t let your dreams be dreams!

    Edit: Also, lots of women have found ways to tuck and wear a bikini. I haven’t tried, but it’s possible.

    • Retro-Hax@feddit.orgOPEnglish
      6·
      14 days ago

      oooo these look nice :0
      But sucks that theyre on Amazon as i dont even have an Account on there >.<
      Will see if i can find similiar ones on Other Sites or maybe even in my Local Clothes SHops >.<
      I never tried tucking because it feels very Scary and hurts for a long time >.<

      • nikki@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
        5·
        14 days ago

        tucking gets easier once you get some shrinkage from hrt, I still can’t though it makes me nauseous :(

        • Retro-Hax@feddit.orgOPEnglish
          3·
          14 days ago

          I have Phimosis tho so i alrwady am scared of taking HRT due to it meaning i cant move my Foreskin at all :c

      • Kayday@lemmy.worldEnglish
        4·
        14 days ago

        The key to get high waisted ones imo, wherever you find them.
        These ones are meant for postpartum women, so they are meant to be a little more stretchy and accommodating in that area, which happens to also make them appropriate for our needs.

  • Courtney (she/her/they) @lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
    8·
    14 days ago

    I’ve not worn a bikini due to self cons ious about my stomach, but I have worn leggings which are very hugging.

    I use a pair of underwear called a gaff (I haven’t clicked on the other comment link to check but I’m guessing it’s a pair) and it pulls everything up nicely. It’s not “unclockable” if someone wants to get up close and inspect, but hopefully anyone that close already knows you well and doesn’t care.

    I also use KT tape (DO NOT USE DUCT TAPE) for squishing everything up. No bathroom breaks like that, but I carry a couple small pieces in my purse and tape in a way that I can go, then put on a small piece. Note: I am a grower not a shower, so normally everything can fold up nice and neat, if a little pronounced. If it’s cold out, one pair of underwear is usually enough. Otherwise it’s 2 pairs of normal underwear. I’m chubby so it’s not out of place on me to have a slight bulge in the pelvic area as a woman.

    I won’t speculate on sizing, but if tucking underwear is uncomfortable, KT tape can be used to “pull it back” between your legs.

  • Jorunn (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
    7·
    14 days ago

    There are garments that holds everything properly if it’s of proper shape and size for you, and there’s underwear and bikinis designed specifically for trans people / femboys / drag queens etc.

    Some might need tucking, some will hold stuff even without. Latex underwear that is a size smaller can help hold things in place, and you can wear it underneath other underwear or garments.

    I personally use boyshorts but I have panties as well, and I have a swimming dress that I really like. They’re all really designed for cis people but they fit me just fine. My cheaper medium sized boyshorts however do usually lose their shape after I wear it for a bit and it stops holding things well. My shapewear that compresses my waist and is like a pantie in the crotch fits really well.