People into this stuff do expect consent. It’s a fantasy that wouldn’t work if it literally happened, but appeals to the submissive desire by virtue of it being divorced from unpleasant realities. Brats who want to be tamed usually indicate they want it before the dom would do anything.
imean - i knowwwww that thisvisnt meant literally…
but like - what im saying is kinda… i think it would feel even spicier if there were some consent talk even in the clip… cuz this way it feels too harsh and-… not cutie. how is a too ever gonna have fun if they arent sure their bottom feels safe?
i would like - i would be just as scared as they are… ;(
EDIT: yeye i knowwwww its a tiktok thing, its meant to be instant horny… sigh…
like - im not here cuz im like “um actually this hornypost should have been softer” but more like “i think that would have made peeps lookin at it happier” kinda thing…
like- im-… i dont even want the spicy, i want the soft before, the asking, the genuine care, the… idunno im proooobably overromantisizing this but- u know?
the - the part where the one gets the other to say a thing they might never have articulated, the light play in that, the - the way peeps handle things when they dunno if their partner/s should hear about a certain thing. the “strawberry cake or cheesecake?”, the" talk or shily be talked into", the looking and not knowing - THAT. yes, that.
I get what you mean though. Don’t get me wrong, I also like the OP and stuff like it, but I can see the appeal of seeing the softer side, too. But I think you’ll find a lot of people enjoy a rougher/darker fantasy even if it wouldn’t be fun if it were real.
i mean like - im essentially asking for an entirely different thing here… this is a hornypost and i go “well actually a tea party would have been nicer” >v<
hm? oh nonono i dont think im ace… hold up, lemme check.
okay now i know what it means for sure and noooo i do like that stuff too sometimes- but i think the romantics stuffs feels so much more cutie and interesting and spicy ~
People into this stuff do expect consent. It’s a fantasy that wouldn’t work if it literally happened, but appeals to the submissive desire by virtue of it being divorced from unpleasant realities. Brats who want to be tamed usually indicate they want it before the dom would do anything.
Also, happy 3 years on Blåhaj Zone!
imean - i knowwwww that thisvisnt meant literally…
but like - what im saying is kinda… i think it would feel even spicier if there were some consent talk even in the clip… cuz this way it feels too harsh and-… not cutie. how is a too ever gonna have fun if they arent sure their bottom feels safe?
i would like - i would be just as scared as they are… ;(
EDIT: yeye i knowwwww its a tiktok thing, its meant to be instant horny… sigh…
If you want content that includes the consent conversations, it’s out there.
imean i knowwwwwwwwwwwwwwww…
like - im not here cuz im like “um actually this hornypost should have been softer” but more like “i think that would have made peeps lookin at it happier” kinda thing…
like- im-… i dont even want the spicy, i want the soft before, the asking, the genuine care, the… idunno im proooobably overromantisizing this but- u know?
the - the part where the one gets the other to say a thing they might never have articulated, the light play in that, the - the way peeps handle things when they dunno if their partner/s should hear about a certain thing. the “strawberry cake or cheesecake?”, the" talk or shily be talked into", the looking and not knowing - THAT. yes, that.
that is what im here for.
That is… Not the norm, i’m afraid.
I get what you mean though. Don’t get me wrong, I also like the OP and stuff like it, but I can see the appeal of seeing the softer side, too. But I think you’ll find a lot of people enjoy a rougher/darker fantasy even if it wouldn’t be fun if it were real.
i mean like - im essentially asking for an entirely different thing here… this is a hornypost and i go “well actually a tea party would have been nicer” >v<
Just ace things?
hm? oh nonono i dont think im ace… hold up, lemme check.
okay now i know what it means for sure and noooo i do like that stuff too sometimes- but i think the romantics stuffs feels so much more cutie and interesting and spicy ~
Oh ok 😝
I just hear ace/demi/graysexual people say things like that so I was curious