I usually need to get to know someone before they are attractive. I describe it as me being greedy, i want the full package not just one that looks nice.
I don’t think that’s greedy, I think that’s pretty normal.
I need to see how a person interacts in conversation to be attracted to them, as i am far more attracted to mannerisms and values than looks. A cute face is great, I couldn’t care much about body as long as a person is relatively healthy (this is a very broad range for me).
I usually need to get to know someone before they are attractive. I describe it as me being greedy, i want the full package not just one that looks nice.
Strange that someone down-voted you for this.
I don’t think that’s greedy, I think that’s pretty normal.
I need to see how a person interacts in conversation to be attracted to them, as i am far more attracted to mannerisms and values than looks. A cute face is great, I couldn’t care much about body as long as a person is relatively healthy (this is a very broad range for me).
I had to live 1/3rd of the time for 2 years with someone to realize I liked them myself, so yea, same