• Armand1@lemmy.world
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    3 days ago

    Short answer: call me whatever you want as long as it’s not rude or confusing.

    Long answer: gender is a very strange concept to me that seems almost entirely social in nature. If it were up to me there would be no gender binary and everyone would just have their own vibe with no judgement. Because we live in society we’re laden with expectations, and perhaps some of those expectations align better with your identity, so you’d rather live as one gender identity or another.

    If I’m at home, unperceived by others I’m just going to be a genderless slob gremlin, otherwise it’s whatever I can wear that is comfortable and will allow me to avoid judgement because I don’t like attention.

    If that is a gender then that is me.