I mean, every time you get someone on “our side” going after medical issues or the body, it’s inherently annoying and bad.

Like, all you are saying is “I actually hate this thing that is natural or needed, but I can’t say it normally, so I’ll target those whom I can get away with it.” Like, you are still a bigot. You are just being a more clever bigot. Those of us who are still affected by these issues see you and know that you are not a safe person to be around when you do shit like this.

“lol he wears diapers” for example is shitty and ableist no matter how you slice it.

It’s like that meme of the person shooting an insult at a person and it bounces off of them and hits their comrade instead.