i kinda want to go to a bar and socialize with strangers, but i have like no idea what im doing. i didnt really before transitioning but now i feel completely lost. if anyone could give me like a basic outline of the social etiquette it would help so much. i realize this is probably the most autistic question i could ask. it gives me so much anxiety even going to a bar, let alone trying to talk to someone.

  • gandalf_der_12te@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
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    2 days ago

    so i would actually like to go to a bar myself, actually i’m planning that for the weekend. i would say:

    • choose the right location. know your audience. don’t try to flirt at the chess club.
    • by direct and straightforward but don’t push boundaries. don’t make things happen that don’t happen automatically.