i kinda want to go to a bar and socialize with strangers, but i have like no idea what im doing. i didnt really before transitioning but now i feel completely lost. if anyone could give me like a basic outline of the social etiquette it would help so much. i realize this is probably the most autistic question i could ask. it gives me so much anxiety even going to a bar, let alone trying to talk to someone.
i disagree. its super helpful to me to have a social script to fall back on. its like bowling for the first time with bumpers. yeah its way more fun to bowl without them, but its also really fucking hard to learn how to throw when you get a gutter ball every time and never even hit a pin. gotta learn the basics first.