Okay but being a shit date isn’t really the issue is it? Because like, that’s just being on a shit date. Most people on dating apps aren’t going to be great dates. Men going on a date with women also risk a shit date, women going on dates with women risk shit dates, men going on date with men risk shit dates. If that was the sole defining problem for women, risking having a bad date, then men would be 100% right to say that this is a system skewed heavily in women’s favour.

You risk men. Like you’re opening yourself up to hundreds of men. As a woman. That’s a threat. Like you’re taking a risk.