There was a recent wrecker post that did this a lot. It comes across as reactionary to me but sometimes I see leftists doing it too. Nerd culture being associated with being childish/nostalgic and easily exploited by sanitised consumption, etc.

As an autistic person who sometimes gets hyperfixations that could be seen as childish, it feels gross to have people paint these hobbies as some kind of uniquely hyperconsumerist thing, because 90% of the time it’s just because the hobby is seen as childish and/or neurodivergent coded.

For example: I was hyperfixated on gardening for a while. It was expensive, really hard to do ethically and the industry itself is massively corporate and responsible for some of the biggest environmental problems today. It’s a nice little escapist hobby where you can turn your mind off while you pretend you aren’t fucking up your local biome because Monsanto decided it would sell more soil wetter, plant disease cures and fertilizer ifs product kills the soils ability to self regulate. I tried to do it the organic permaculture way, ended up being too expensive and half of the products were not in fact as ethical as they pretended to be. Also I have a degree in Ecology, most gardners don’t have that luxury and are not trained how to garden ethically. Never once have I ever seen anyone call gardening a vapid corporate hobby or expressed concern that I was using my fake little biome to escape from the real world. Never once have I been lumped in with the same people who invented DDT. Because it’s a socially acceptable hobby for a well adjusted adult to have.

I can’t say the same for when I had a Pokemon hyperfixation. It was a relatively cheap hobby, I mostly just played the games and the rom hacks were fun. But I stopped because who wants to be associated with grown ass adults waiting in line for cards and playing a childrens game! They must be mentally ill in some way, right? Now adults who still like a hobby they grew up with get put into the same camp as Harry Potter fans, who we have apparently now have decided are bad because Harry Potter is childish and whimsical, not because the writer is a racist transphobe.

Just something that mulls over in my head sometimes, because social dynamics that make no sense to me are another thing I like to fixate on and dissect for fun. I tend to see how the flow of popular narratives can manipulate people into adopting reactionary talking points. All you have to do is trojan something onto a socially acceptable target without outright saying the target and you have even leftists redirected to attack a target that the right want dead. People are funny.

Thanks for reading my weird rant. I could just be coming across as insecure and making myself an easy target for wreckers to get a rant from, but eh who cares.

  • userse31 [it/its, he/him]@hexbear.net
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    I want to read books targeted to adult audiences. I enjoy more complex stories.

    But almost all of them are bland cishet romance slop with the same plots and characters, just different names and locations!

    I didn’t enjoy Warrior Cats and Redwall, I found them quite shallow, but there’s still stuff in them to “dig my teeth into”, even if most of it is analyzing and criticism.

    Oh, and the fans of these works make neat stuff!

    Most romance novels are written so their authors can eat. There is no true passion in that, no writing for “the love of the game”. Fucking sad really.

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      A good place to start reading adult books with an assurance of quality is old genre piece classics, most don’t use super flowery language because they were written for an older teenager and young adult audience and the only ones still being recommended today are the ones good enough to be remembered (also they don’t usually focus on romance as much).

      John Wyndhams books aren’t too long and pretty gripping, mostly grounded scifi stories, I’d recommend starting with Day of the Triffids or The Midwich Cuckoos, if you’d like something along the same lines but a bit older try HG Wells. Ursula Leguin’s really good too for more fantastical sci-fi, i remember getting shaken out of a long bout of not reading by The Left Hand of Darkness (Fahrenheit 451 and Brave New World were also good for this).

      There’s a lot of good old spy and crime books you might like, i remember being very fond of The 39 Steps and The Man Who Was Thursday, and all the old Sherlock Holmes books ofc.

      All of these are fairly short and not too hard to get into and widely available second hand at low prices.