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    4 hours ago

    If you ask multiple questions in one phrase my brain can’t handle it sorry

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      Honest question, if I have to ask for 3 pieces of information, would it help if I sent it in 3 messages?

      Message 1: how many people are coming to dinner?

      Message 2: are any vegetarian?

      Message 3: what time are they arriving?

      Personally I would prefer the 1 message with 3 questions vs the 3 messages with 1 question each(many messages in short time make me think something is wrong and urgent), what’s your preference?

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          Interesting. Thanks for the quick response.

          Really the only thing that really annoys me over text is yes/no to not yes/no questions.

          Me: I’ve had a long day so was going to just pick up dinner on way home, do you want pizza or burgers?

          Partner: yes

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      I’ve noticed that with my partner with ADHD, and also my sister with ADHD. Neither can easily deal with multiple topics in one message. Curious.

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    obviously he adjusted his communication to be exactly as precise as her “hints” all day, she then intentionally reframed the situation to get support for “beeing innocent” while really beeing the one who has created the situation in the first place. standard gf behavoir, when the context is missing in her story, it is likely missing on purpose to hide exactly how she created the situation.

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      quite obvious indeed. I too like to extrapolate wildly speculative situations and motives from a likely fake twittter screenshot

      EDIT: it’s actually astounding how you managed to construct an entire cinematic universe around this tweet just to somehow shift the blame to the woman, despite the lack of literally any context.

      Reddit truly keeps living on on this platform

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    I feel like whenever someone posts a reasonably relatable marriage meme on Lemmy, all the terminally single people show up to demonstrate exactly why no one will love them.

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      The comments here are pretty mild. Lemmy’s usually fine with it as long as it’s “husband bad” and not “wife bad”.

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          I’m fine, don’t worry. It’s just sad your loved ones don’t communicate with you normally. Then again, judging by your comments, I’m not that surprised people don’t want to communicate with you.

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            damn, I’m that horrible and even I still have someone who loves and married me… so… where does that put you?

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              What puts me where? I never said anything about my relationship status, it’s all your imagination. The fact is that no one I know, especially not my partner, communicates with me that way. I don’t find this meme relatable at all. The way you jump to conclusions trying to confirm your biases and immediately get hostile could explain why people struggle to communicate with you. Maybe if you would listen you would understand better what they are saying? Developing some empathy also wouldn’t hurt. What did lonely people ever do to you? Why do you hate them so much?

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    she said “couple of questions” but she asked 3. So the last one doesn’t count. Also, she married him, pretty sure this isn’t a new trait of him