

Match is beyond untrustworthy. They bought the functional matchmaking system, OKCupid, to invert its outputs. The OKCupid system was designed to have short account lifespans, meaning the pairs were effective and they stopped using it after meeting. That tech was turned on its head since the acquisition, which was most likely motivated by having an effective competitor which gained word of mouth. At least in their other brands, that original site was left to languish. Only populate the queue using the profiles which engage the user, eg those of people whose if met will not lead to either party abandoning the software. Only those matches which will perpetuate its use and hopefully manage to upsell desperate people.







Pretty much. I may peace out after this for obvious reasons, I would definitely need to check the statutes of limitation for things but I was so close it would probably make a lot of this forum scream to know. Why not commit? I wasn’t doing so well at the time if you can believe it, and frustratingly I concluded that it was too self-less for a society like ours. Unlikely to lead to anything greater, but unironically if I’d had even one romantic prospect in the couple of years preceding that I almost certainly would have committed to it. So I do think there’s a strategy in place, maybe subconscious for some rulers, to numb people through isolation.