• @sunbeam60
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    3210 months ago

    Hobbies and pursuing them. Like board games? Join the local game night! Like sailing? Join a sailing club and attend! Like football? Join a local football team. Like thinking and debating? Join a Sceptic Society!

    It’s hard to be the new kid, it never changes with age, but you just need a few shared experiences and people start thinking of you as part of the tribe.

    • @diskmaster23
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      1910 months ago

      Like sex? Join a sex club!

      • @sunbeam60
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        510 months ago

        Sure. Not for me, but I do have a friend who’s very active in the swinging scene and he’s made friends there.

      • bigboopballs [he/him]
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        10 months ago

        Like sex? Join a sex club!

        easier said than done, buddy! there’s not just sex clubs hanging around that any man can just go and join

      • @FUsername@feddit.de
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        10 months ago

        I guess that joke works for almost every activitiy, except for those which incorporate death of people.

        Except you’re necrophile, so even there. /s