R as ret ar ded.

I’m from Balkans and I think there’s no swearing anywhere in the world like in Balkans. We use slurs A LOT and pretty casually, so I am always surprised when I am censored on some word online.

It happened just now. The R word was removed from my comment, so I wanted to find out what’s going on with it.

Since I talk to people from all around the world, I don’t want to be an ignorant fool and I want to learn why it isn’t ok to say something, so I can implement it without the feeling I’m being deprived of free speech.

Again, take in consideration the Balkan thing if you think I’m trolling with this post. I’m not. I swear to you, the shit we’re able to say are insane and we really think it’s no big deal.

So, when did R word became a slur and why it’s not ok to call someone R word as an insult?

Thank you for the education. A human learns while grows and until dies.

EDIT: You’re really nice community and I am really thankful you’ve explained this to me. As I said, I can be a Slow Poke sometimes and growing where I grew, some shit has just stuck as normal and I am glad to unlearn it. My heart is leftist, but I grew up as a Catholic in the midst of the war where we learned a lot of hateful stuff as a normal part of identity. I want to fuck it off from me, so thanks, really.

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    3 months ago

    A lot of people DO avoid using those words and ask people to refrain from using “dumb” and “stupid” in their presence. Small children are taught that calling someone stupid is mean. It is ableist to insult someone’s intelligence like that, but it is an ableism that a lot of society tolerates.

    As far as “why can’t I use this slur if other words mean roughly the same thing” - I feel like this is obvious. You can say someone is black, but you should not call them the N word, even if the N word means “a black person”.