If my parents ever saw my hexbear posting history, they would make me into history. I have to post this story though, I have to get the word out.
Before I started HRT (in the ancient time period known as 2024), I used to semi-frequently visit this gay hookup spot, because, well, quick and easy sex. Plus I could try to “act like a girl” (everytime I was done, I felt like shit and felt like I was “dirty”. I have no idea what compelled me to put myself through this torture). Putting aside the depressing stuff though …
The best sex I had was with this foot fetishist guy. It’s not my proudest moment, but the one time I actually enjoyed sex with another person was when they actually tried to please me instead of me doing all the work. It just so happened to be that this person’s idea of pleasing me was … sucking on my toes. Like, at first he tried sucking on my dick (which I ended up hating). He tried sucking on my nipples, which felt much better. Then, somehow, he got the bright idea to pull off my shoes (yes, I was having sex nude except for shoes), proceeded to call my feet beautiful, then just went ham on them.
I was completely blindsided, and against the idea. But good lord I had no idea that having your toes sucked felt that good. It was somehow better than having my nipples sucked. Imma be real with y’all, we sleeping on the foot fetish people. This was the biggest case of “don’t judge a book by its cover” I ever experienced. I mean, I still won’t suck toes, but I have to give due respect to the foot fetishists. I wasn’t familiar with your game.
The creepy foot guys are why
They’re definitely the biggest reason, but as a subset of that is just how public it is in a way that most other paraphilia isn’t (And insofar as it is, it’s not as recognisable). Like the sheer brazenness of the foot stuff in Joss Whedon shows or Tarantino films is actually kind of insane.
That’s a paraphilia?
Its the example wikipedia uses?? I thought it was like a fairly “vanilla” kink thing.