If my parents ever saw my hexbear posting history, they would make me into history. I have to post this story though, I have to get the word out.
Before I started HRT (in the ancient time period known as 2024), I used to semi-frequently visit this gay hookup spot, because, well, quick and easy sex. Plus I could try to “act like a girl” (everytime I was done, I felt like shit and felt like I was “dirty”. I have no idea what compelled me to put myself through this torture). Putting aside the depressing stuff though …
The best sex I had was with this foot fetishist guy. It’s not my proudest moment, but the one time I actually enjoyed sex with another person was when they actually tried to please me instead of me doing all the work. It just so happened to be that this person’s idea of pleasing me was … sucking on my toes. Like, at first he tried sucking on my dick (which I ended up hating). He tried sucking on my nipples, which felt much better. Then, somehow, he got the bright idea to pull off my shoes (yes, I was having sex nude except for shoes), proceeded to call my feet beautiful, then just went ham on them.
I was completely blindsided, and against the idea. But good lord I had no idea that having your toes sucked felt that good. It was somehow better than having my nipples sucked. Imma be real with y’all, we sleeping on the foot fetish people. This was the biggest case of “don’t judge a book by its cover” I ever experienced. I mean, I still won’t suck toes, but I have to give due respect to the foot fetishists. I wasn’t familiar with your game.
Nah, no one in their right mind should want to suck on my feet.
I’m ace so the only comparable experience I have is the day I learned avocados are really yummy
yes, I was having sex nude except for shoes
That would be funny site headline if it wasn’t NSFW
The most American thing I’ve heard.
I would be honored
Guzzling cum through a dog’s muzzle
This tagline gone?
Yes after it showed up when a user was showing their therapist a hexbear post we decided it had to go.
Oh god hahahahahahahahahahaha
Yep. Just checked.
We have some dirty headlines this doesn’t seem that out of place
Posting nude except for shoes.
Once a friend of mine sucked my toes felt weird but kinda good. Then we watched Shakma the movie about a baboon that escapes a lab and kills DnD nerds. Good night.
Milo Edwards has this bit about how foot fetish guys have the worst PR for what is kind of a mild fetish and it’s so bad you can’t compliment or massage a foot without being suspected.
I’m not a foot fetish person but I’m not anti it. Feet stuff synthesises well with a lot of BDSM which I am into, being stepped on, dismissive foot jobs, tickle torture, worshipping through foot massage etc
It’s kind of like piss. Not my thing again but I’d do it in a BDSM context because it fits well, being tied and needing to piss, being forced to drink piss, piss waterboarding etc.
Er do we need CW in an already NSFW thread?
C’mon don’t up vote this
Knew a girl with foot-phobia in highschool but never any foot fetishists. Well, not open ones at least.
they actually tried to please me instead of me doing all the work.
It’s the key to good sex generally. Like, why even bother having sex if you’re not going to concentrate on getting your partner off? Your hand will do the same job on demand for much less effort.
foot-phobia
I know phobias aren’t rational, but feet phobia? You learn something new everyday.
I agree that one should try to pleasure their partner, but aside from that point:
I have no experience as a woman but…as a former cis-man.
Im sorry, but nah. Even mediocre sex is better than masturbation for most Cis-Men. (Talking mostly Cis-Men here) Id go as far as to say the sex would have to be actively bad to be a worse experience than masturbation. Not saying you cant have higher standards, Im just challenging the idea that masturbation is an equal substitute for real sex for a lot of people. There is the whole bonding aspect of sex as well.
Sex is overrated by society, but it can also be really fucking nice.
Even mediocre sex is better than masturbation for most Cis-Men. (Talking mostly Cis-Men here) Id go as far as to say the sex would have to be actively bad to be a worse experience than masturbation.
I wish I could relate T_T. I’ve literally never orgasmed during sex, but I can do it just fine by myself. Even the foot fetish guy finished, tried to jack me off for like 10 minutes before giving up in embarrassment. Idk if this is a psychology thing or what.
Because most Cis men won’t buy a prostate massager or a magic wand.
It’s the key to good sex generally
Pleasure switches rise up
It is said that the whole body is an erogenous zone if you know what you’re doing, and the feet in particular are known to have a lot of sensitive nerve endings, so it figures…
not much to add besides i’m so glad i was blessed with hyper sensitive nipples and other assorted femme erogenous zones.
didn’t even need to HRT my body just did that on it’s own
Was Mr. Foot Fetish wearing this hat by chance?
spoiler
no… no thank you
I do likes cute feets and the synergy they bring. All those delicous nerves making connections.
Saying this being a turbo mega virgin but idk foot stuff always seemed more appealing than regular sex, might just be my contradictionary nature looming like it does in everything I do
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The creepy foot guys are why
They’re definitely the biggest reason, but as a subset of that is just how public it is in a way that most other paraphilia isn’t (And insofar as it is, it’s not as recognisable). Like the sheer brazenness of the foot stuff in Joss Whedon shows or Tarantino films is actually kind of insane.
That’s a paraphilia?
Its the example wikipedia uses?? I thought it was like a fairly “vanilla” kink thing.
I think it’s a bad rep, because people (ofc especially women) would like to have at least some body parts that aren’t immediately sexualized, but now you even have to think about the beach pic of your feet in the sand.
Bare feet are seen as very innocuous… Until the feet people show up, are horny on main, put them in a wiki, give them a rating and catalogue all the feet pics.
In bed it definitely falls for me under the “if it brings you joy, we’ll find a way” category.
It gets a bad rep because foot fetish guys are the only guys who feel like their completely sexual fetish is somehow also non-sexual enough to write every random female-presenting person on Facebook if they would sell feet pics for cash
I think this fact is interwoven with the fact that it’s also the most “niche” fetish you can know about at like 5 drinks deep at the office christmas party without being labeled the office pervert instantly for your knowledge about it existing, irregardless of whether it is your thing at all. It’s sort of common knowledge enough that people might chime in to validate you are not the sex freak for knowing this, but not mainstreamed enough like BDSM after 50 Shades that you can do naughty jokes about it
And don’t even get me started on the creepy armpit guys…
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My problem with it is that they shove their fetish into absolutely fucking everything and it’s in my face via some medium practically every single fucking day. I do not consent to being exposed to your kink.
It’s become so normalised to just include it in fucking everything and I don’t like that at all. Even artists that aren’t foot fetishists will do it just as like a fanservice to them and because it’s easy reshares etc. Even fucking BRANDS like Overwatch have used it for social media shit.
It’s weird enough to be alien, but not so weird you can’t bring it up as a joke