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    At the risk of losing brain cells, I’m extremely curious what her reasoning is here.

    Is it just cause it’s childish? Is shaming men for liking childish things not enforcing toxic masculinity?

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      If Cindy is commenting on him liking something she considers childish, then Cindy is indeed a bitch.

      But if she’s commenting on his apparent expectation that it be free for men in their twenties as if he’s owed something, that I can kinda see her point.

      Would be nice if she made her point in a way in which her meaning could be clearly understood.

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          No, but it is passively transphobic, in that you’re forgetting that men and non-binary people may also use tampons. Tampons and every other necessity should be free for everyone.

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          I don’t think think so. I’m not even sure my interpretation was actually why she reacted that way.

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      26 days ago

      It’s definitely related.

      Not exactly childish, but usually you can apply it more broadly as a man enjoying something that isn’t seen as outwardly productive.

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      Before seeing the reply, my l reaction to his post was “this is some bullshit. I wanna ride go-carts too.”

      Cindy needs to calm down though. I’m sure he didn’t mean women wouldn’t be allowed on the track; just that this man really likes go-carts.

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      Maybe him having “Caucasian James” as a handle makes her think he’s a racist? (Which is itself silly since it’s more likely a reference to The Office, but it’s all I can come up with.)

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      karting isnt childish unless youre in a child kart. there are karts that haul ass

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    If you do things that bring you joy, frequently, you’re less likely to become all festery and bitter, angry goblin.

    I struggle to see what Cindy’s getting at, it’s ridiculous, of course, but I’m still curious and can’t imagine in my wildest dreams, why, because someone wants socialism and she’s brainwashed to believe capitalism is the only way? I don’t get it.

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      If you do things that bring you joy, frequently, you’re less likely to become all festery and bitter … I don’t get it.

      You already explained Cindy’s problem in the first sentence.

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      I think motor “sports”, competition, noise, speed and fossil fuel is what triggers red flag. Or Ami wrong ?

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      If you do things that bring you joy, frequently, you’re less likely to become all festery and bitter, angry goblin.

      And misery loves company. You can’t just go find a positive existence and be one of those weirdos who is like, into things.

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    Educate yourself in what? Men shouldn’t be allowed to enjoy themselves? Happy guys are red flags? What’s the problem?

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    Cindy’s one of those arseholes that thinks age-appropriate applies to leisure activities , isn’t she?

    Unless the guy in question is responding to a free sanitary products post, then he can eat my entire flatulent arsehole

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      Plot twist: She runs a go kart track and has to constantly hear their jokes about free refills etc.

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    The HR lady at work was telling me about her husband’s sweet ass jeep that’s all modded and lifted and whatnot. Then she said that she can’t drive it because she can’t drive stick and its the one thing she let’s him have. I feel bad for the poor dude, he must be miserable.

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    I would much rather the men wear themselves out with a physical activity before coming home, actually. Otherwise they get pretty cranky come bedtim, after playing fake racing games on their Xbox all day.

    Mine does that anyway.

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      This reads like you are a racing simulator elitist. It’s a funny image. Lording over your man child from your $10K racing rig.

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      I’m sure there are plenty of very nice women who look similar to Cindy. When you attack her appearance, you’re accidentally attacking them also.

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          👍 as long as you understand that what you’re doing is wrong and why. Not because it’s crass, but because making fun of the way somebody looks because of something wrong they’ve done is mean and unrelated. There may be other people, who look the way she does, who do not deserve the meanness you put out. Don’t hurt people who do not deserve it; it doesn’t bode well to be mean as a response, especially to something as inert as the way somebody looks.

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            I don’t need to be preached to about it. I’ll respond to it how I’ll respond. Other people aren’t putting themselves out there being assholes who look like her so my response isn’t directed at them or victimizing them for their looks. I’m no peach either.