These bigoted, ignorant scum will never listen to anything. They are politically illiterate infants with an allergic reaction to reading.
They have ruined a safe space cultivated and cared for, they have turned this place into a new reddit.
I had a dude in my private messages going on about how I was both mutilating myself and other children. Many more people on hexbear have had similar experiences, with these worthless ignorant scum popping in to deliver the political equivalent of a giant shit.
As your friends, comrades, and people you say you defend get slurred at, dehumanized, and harassed please ask yourself:
Is it worth it?
I have the answer, I know you know it as well:
No its not
I used to think otherwise
I was a fool
its not worth a few laughs
even if you dunk all you want, that doesn’t take away the knife those people put in our backs.
These bigots, fascists, and NATO liberals are as worthless offline as they are here, why should we give them any attention. They are worth less than the dirt beneath our fingernails. Why should we poison ourselves with their influence? We don’t make any room for them offline, why should we not online?
And really
How many essays have your written?
How many sources have you combed through?
How many times have you explained the most basic facts of reality?
How many attempts at good faith?
Only for them to dismiss it in their stupidity. They don’t read it, they just crumble and divert back to the programming these little shits trust in more than God.
For every time there is a good faith user, there are a dozen scumbag fascists. And most of the time, the “good faith one” just reverts back to their old shit.
Do you really think losing any member of the hexbear or lemmygrad community, longtime members or not, is worth a few good dunks?
I don’t believe a small chance of gaining a new user is worth alienating an entire section of the community. The vast majority of those idiots are lost causes. If they are interested, the can just make an account and ask in good faith.
Is posting a meme to “own the liberals” worth your comrades getting more trauma from bigots harassing them?
No its not.
you’ve had your laugh, but it should end
Ban them all, SJW, lemm.ee, lemmy, the programmer nazi edglords. Keep Lemmygrad.
Defederate from those communities. We shouldn’t sacrifice our own for more clicks. For having to subject ourselves to the opinions of people thoroughly brainwashed? We aren’t reddit. We came here to get away from that. I’m sick of this. We are sick of this.
End it now
— “This is just how it always starts, don’t it? Every inch you give them, they take miles. It’s the same obvious type of bullshit that the people who push these ideas through never think about. Around these parts, we take care of our own — at least, that’s the way it ought to be. Last thing we need is more shitstirrers coming in here to mess with the closest thing we’ve carved out to something decent. Hell, we barely had ourselves sorted out before whoever-on-top opened up their cages on us.” He spits. “Bunch of fucking assholes.”How are you so insanely good at this. Genuinely, its art.
And everything you said is absolutely on point.
my headcanon is that we attracted one of the DE writers and they’re now posting here.
Its the only explanation, the bits are god tier
I literally hear the voice actors in my head every time. it’s uncanny.
same!
Is it Mack McGuire’s or Matt Christman’s voice, though?
Matt Christman is probably the worst voice actor I’ve ever heard. Mack McGuire
depends on your current mood when reading it
Mr. Kurvitz is here?
maybe it’s Helen Hindpere
There’s translations of Sacred and Terrible Air available now, this doesn’t read like something Kurvitz wrote. He’s more florid and metaphorical than that.
Brings tears to my eyes
The based “Try That in a Small Town” where it’s a group of union guys murdering mercenaries.
Grad is fine. Rest should go. The mod log is making me more depressed by the day.
corgi must be happy, we love corgi
Corgi loves you all too and wants this site to be happy. Dunking is all well and good, but a lot of the people I love seeing every day on this site are having their lives invalidated by assholes and it hurts me (and not just because I’m a part of the group being targeted).
I haven’t seen anything too bad from the startrek one personally. Lemdit and shitjustworks gotta go for sure. Both with unrepentant racist/transphobic mods and no intention to improve.
The lemmy model of federation is awful. It just is. It’s just an attempt to recreate reddit. I’ve said it before but our brains in 2023 are too poisoned by modern social media to be able to imagine what a real distributed internet looks like. The lemmy devs need to find a 50 year old who was into BBSes in the 80s to give them some ideas.
I have a feeling that this post will be a catalyst for us to seriously think about where we’re at with Federation and it really sucks that that catalyst has to, once again, come at the expense of our trans comrades.
The current problem with Lemmy is they’re filled with Ledditors, people who act more like Redditors than your average Redditors. They are people who used Reddit enough time to need third-party apps, get mad that spez took away their third-party apps, and can’t move on to a different social media site but instead choose to use a shitty Reddit clone. After getting their brains melted through repeated exposure to Reddit, their conversation tree is less complex than a RPG NPC. That’s why /c/memes@lemmy.ml is so brutally unfunny. It’s literally filled with people who unironically upvote “is this just fantasy” or “I did Nazi that coming” for the 3254352nd time. They can’t even just take screenshots of tweets like what the actual funny subreddits do.
and it really sucks that that catalyst has to, once again, come at the expense of our trans comrades.
this is where i’ve ended up as well. i think there’s some cool people on lemm.ee that are worth considering (@ice@lemm.ee is an example in this thread) but i don’t even want to make that argument if that fucks up the safe space we’ve made for our trans comrades here.
I really do think the problem is the sorting on posts. It really seems to funnel people into struggle sessions. Before we merge back with Lemmy proper hexbear had its own sorting that was implemented after we had problems with large site spanning arguments. I don’t follow what the Lemmy devs are up to but I do hope they think of changing some of the weighting in the post sorting.
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hope that you all understand that your presence in the community is appreciated, at least by me
I know you’re good as a person, its just that a bunch of people from every other instance too who have bigots thinking they can say what they please
I value you comrades, I just don’t want anymore bigotstbh if hexbear defeds i’m just gonna block all news communities from my feed; there’s always another perspective and without hexbear i’d only see things that fit comfortably within a societal status-quo
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federating with SJW was an obvious mistake and I really don’t see why it was re-litigated.
I myself was too in my own head, thinking about more dunking and memeing.
The whole federation besides anyone but lemmygrad and lemmy was a lost cause from the beginning
Is the name supposed to be ironic? I assumed it was wordplay but they seem to bristle at the idea of being considerate of minorities and people outside of
to an odd degree.SJW is a perfect abbreviation for them. Reactionary pieces of shit.
I didn’t realize just how openly fascist the instance was. we should revote on federating with them. I think we can handle lemm.ee libs but a large percentage of open fascists is a no-go.
I have been compulsively arguing in a way I haven’t in years. It’s extremely unhealthy and has effected everything from my sleep to my mood to my concentration. Please do something about all these ignorant cissies. Hexbear was fully of cis ally’s who were not only good on the issues but knew how to hang and not make shit weird.
Yo same, I’m more ‘engaged’ than I’ve ever been but I actually loved just being able to scroll a genuinely pleasant environment and now it’s full of the most noxious fucking shitheads I’ve run into in years.
There are two wolves inside me
One loves having a cozy space to hang with my comrades
The other is a messy bitch who loves drama
We really need to find a way to make the
real, and use it on people for bad postsI’m coming around on the idea of the “airlock” instance where we make Hexbear 2, federate with that, and then Hexbear 2 is the one that actually federates with outsiders.
it’s so dumb that we’d need to do that kind of shenanigans. A sane federation model would be like “click the ‘federated subs’ button to see federated bullshit” and it all gets automatically contained to its own area.
ngl my site defaults to “local” so I don’t even see any of this shit until people link it in the dunk tank or something
if that’s not the default behavior then it should be at the very least
It is the default, but even if you’re local only you’ll see people from other sites coming into Hexbear threads - not to mention the fact that Hexbear communities are constantly posting their dunks.
Lib.rehab
isn’t that lemmygrad tho
:thonk:
Hexbear2_2_2
I’m coming around on the idea of the “airlock” instance where we make Hexbear 2, federate with that, and then Hexbear 2 is the one that actually federates with outsiders.
Hexbairlock
I like this idea. People who want to engage with the Fediverse make an account there, people who don’t, don’t.
Someone could start and run it, very easily…
You could also make account creation dependent on having an Hexbear account older than today. Adjust it down the line, but that would cut back on a lot of riff-raff
Hold up, I need to go reserve moretankiehexbe.ar
This, i vote for this one right here!
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I’m sorry
Hopefully the recent defederations will calm things down soon
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I didn’t expect sh.itjust.works to be this bad, but they seriously have been the worst instance. I voted against federating because of the racist Xi picture, and turns out that place is full of people who are ready to
splain why that picture isn’t in fact racist.they endorse blatant racism
Well, ACTUALLY, did you know that Xinnie the Pooh is a stale meme from Hong Kong social media that dates back to Obama’s first term? That makes it okay to make teh lulz maymays of
badfunny yellowmanbear.
And Obama was “tigger” in that meme, I wonder why…
John Oliver told us it was okay so it can’t be racist 
I’ve seen you absolutely toss people, but its sad to see them just not read anything written
I’ve seen a few people change their minds, and more than that say they were already sympathetic and now have accounts here, or post here from other instances. much like the old sub, being a boogeyman is how we grow. But things right now are a getting out of hand. I think defining some of our comms as local-only may help.
To be honest, I’ve lost count of the number of people I’ve seen from other instances go “sorry, I’m wrong”. Sure, there are plenty of stubborn nerds too, but I can definitively say that those essays and sources and facts do and have changed some peoples’ minds.
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I’m glad some of y’all are having fun but I like the website a lot less since federation
The memers can make seperate lemmygrad accounts if they want to interact with liberals. I want to go back to intelligent hexbear conversations, and dumb hexbear ones that aren’t about the right to existence of minorities.
Totally agree
I joined with the reddit exodus on lemmygrad.ml but made a hexbear for the well constructed dunks but I would also be interested in seeing active well thought out local conversations
The only positive is the influx of good users we’ve gotten over the past month. I think going dark again is a good idea since now we’re the Lemmy Boogeyman and people know we exist.
If we keep new accounts application based for a while to keep trolls out, I think we can still turn this into a net positive.
Staying federated with some instances (grad) is good, but federating so aggressively is rough because while we’re still the largest instance, we can’t handle attacks from 50 fronts.
I’m not going to ever claim to speak for any amount of the userbase but good users found this site just fine before. I’ll take the increased activity if the fediverse discussions and arguments and brigades die down
Oh totally, I just meant that since the federation I’ve seen a massive influx of people who immediately left their instances for here. Mostly trans folk who like our community.
That’s the part that was worth it
I’m glad people have found a safe place, too. My personal tastes are not nearly as important as that
same. If I wanted to interact with dummies I’d go to any other website
Which is why i literally only use this website for online social interactions
Yeah, me too. I mean, I probably have a bigger issue with the new algorithm but I’m not really seeing any positives with federation.
I also dislike the sort but i can handle having to fiddle with that
Okay I actually have it all figured out, a solution that will make everyone else, but most importantly, me, happy.
Hexbear dederates from everyone but lemmygrad. A new instance spins up, called Chapo.chat, and federates far and wide. Hexbear federates with Chapo.chat. Hexbear users can come out into the post trenches at will but also cycle back for some lib free r&r. And I get to finally be free of being called a fuckint Hexbear.
How much is it to host one of these bad boys I’ll cover it.
This was suggested before federation, possibly it was by you.
I think it is a good idea but I also have another suggestion.
User setting to disable private messages from federated instances. Turn off federation until implemented.
The benefit of this approach is mainly that if it is pushed to upstream lemmy then it can be a tool for all marginalized groups on all instances rather than just a solution for hexbear alone.
Honestly it seems like there should be more granular federation setting available to admins: each instance could have an on/off setting for posting, commenting, DMs, etc., and maybe other things like blocking new users from certain instances, or whatnot.
This would be too slow to solve the immediate problem, but it’s something more long term to think about.
This would be too slow to solve the immediate problem, but it’s something more long term to think about.
Yes and I think it is important to emphasis that we should treat this as a problem that we must address on the fediverse level long term and not just a local site quick fix. This issue is basically a classic example of the tactics reactionaries use to dupe naive libs. Our critics tone police the public posts of hexbear users reportedly not civil enough in our defense of the marginalized all while the criticizing instances are hosting those conducting harassment campaigns in private.
This sort of behavior can so easily continue invisible to those that it does not target and indeed it was invisible to me until this thread. What is great about hexbear is that this thread will be taken seriously as were previous incidences of private harassment (ie: TC69 vs downvotes). On other instances that are run by more reddit brained individuals I do not have the same confidence that such voices will be listened to.
That is why our solution should be tools that can be upstreamed to lemmy, particularly ones that can be applied by individual users. In this way even instances that defederate with us will still be haunted by our specter.
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I also hated the name change lol. Let’s do this, let me just be a slimy little chapo again.
I literally left this website until federation was announced over it, but then again, I am a giant baby.
Yeah I’m stuck no matter what lol, my snout needs slop and this is its preferred kind
I’m generally pro-federation but I absolutely agree with defederating with SJW. My reason for voting to federate was that I felt that picking up a few comrades is worth dealing with all the libs. But now I can confidently say there are no comrades on SJW. I haven’t seen a single cool person on there. Plus even the admins have gone off about “anti-white racism” while defending the racist Xi image. They’re all shit.
The other instances have the occasional cool person which imo makes it worthwhile imo and we’ve been gradually moving towards some sort of understanding, like about what summons the horde. Bringing in a new set of libs sent us right back to square 1 and washed away any progress. Defederating with them would go a long way to improving things while losing absolutely nothing of value. But lemmy.ml and lemm.ee are not nearly as bad imo.
Your point about how liberals refuse to read all of the well cited responses and posts is so true. They don’t engage at all, just troll and act smarmy about it while not learning a thing.
I am once again asking Hexbears to STOP criticizing NATO. There are people of NATO who are proud of their heritage, and it is offensive and insensitive to the people who derive their source of pride from their NATO heritage.
I missed when I knew that these things would be bits
NA**phobia is utterly out of control on hexbear
March 10 2004; the year history began, when Lithuania joined NATO. We have no records of what transpired before that day.
On one hand, I’m loathe to let those shitheads think they’ve won, on the other hand we defedded blahaj zone for a lot less, idk I think maybe we do need to defed them for like the amount of reddit
shit they have on their instancehonestly those smug shits will post verbal diarrhea and think they’ve won anyway. I’d rather let them die in ignorance than deal with them anyway.
shitting out my doodoo mouth rn
what’s the quote about their ideology being in power, they’ve already won?
so who gives a shit what they think
