I never really felt much of a connection with this guy, despite sticking it out for over a year with him. Hes very insistent that I take almost 3 hours out of my day to do in person visits and has threatened to charge me as a cancelation if I still demanded virtual, I haven’t felt the ability to be honest with him about larger issues than what I discuss, and frankly I would get nervous to talk to him before a lot of sessions. I had a therapist before that I connected with better, but that was 3 years ago almost and I had to stop when I lost my last job.
Im already in the process of getting back with my past therapist, who seemed much warmer to me. When I had to stop seeing her, i cried, whereas with this guy, I’m nervous he’ll try to talk me out of dropping him.
On the bus to go do it now, send me your good vibes pls
I hope it went well!
I have to beg my therapist to stay with me because I still have things I want to work on but since the waiting lists are currently longer than a year, therapists are very eager to move on quickly to treat as many people as possible.
It went fucking horribly! Dude wanted to have basically a full session long conversation analyzing why I wanted to leave, and used my life/relationship situation to insinuate I was a bad patient, and that he went out of his way to respond to that with patience. “You’re only here so you can keep your partner happy and have a roof over your head.” I’m obviously angry, but mostly just shocked that a professional would take a dig at me that way, especislly after 18ish months.
That’s awful. What a dick. And a horrible therapist.
Yeahhh, there might be a formal complaint lodged.