Hello everyone!

I just recently came out to my partner as possibly (probably) trans. Everything has gone well and they and our closest friends are very supporting and caring. I couldnt really have had a better opening up I feel like.

Now, I feel like this has been a long time coming. I have never really felt comfortable with who I was ever since I was 12-13, I am 26 now. I have never had the space, surroundings or environment to explore or talk about this until now so I’ve had a lot of time to think and feel.

I am pretty sure I am trans but Im still not a hundred percent. I know she/her pronouns resonate well with me and I feel very good when wearing feminine clothes and showing a more feminine side that otherwise has been repressed. My partner helped me order some clothes the other day and I am very hyped to try those out.

Theres alot to think about and things I want to try and do, but I wanted to ask you all. What are your experiences, lessons or tips from your journeys? Is there anything I or maybe others in my situation could learn from?

Happy to hear anything and everything you want to share ❤️

  • gandalf_der_12te@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    6 days ago

    Unrelated but i’m still not sure whether i want boobs. Yesterday i dreamed of having some and it felt good but then i wake up and can’t like it.

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      6 days ago

      I thought I didn’t want boobs, until I started the E and grew some and that changed my mind.

      My brain likes estrogen. When I’m on the right dose I feel fine and good and normal. Testosterone makes me depressed. And changes to my body like boobs are a nice bonus as it turns out.

    • kluczyczka (she/her)@discuss.tchncs.de
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      6 days ago

      have you tried any flavor of fake boobs?

      i got a shirt i never wore. i tried it with some bad boob substitutes a time ago, and it was better. icame to the conclusion that i might like having actual boobs (that wouldn’t look as bad as those).

      today, abt 6 month in, i liked my upper body in a thight top for the first time. i had only inferred, that i might like having boobs. i do!

      just know that stuffing a bra will look a bit wonky, depending on what you use. your body will do better. ;)