Hey everyone! Ive been missing yall for a while, and without going into too much i havent had great access to my wardrobe or the ability to wear it.
Anyways, in other news, due to a supremely nightmarish interaction with police, i am now out to the entire state of oregon! All the worst people i was most afraid of knowing now know! Yayyy 🙃
Plus some deeply personal and intrusive questions, like:
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What genital were you born with? Have you had any surgeries? Any plans to have surgery? Mtf or ftm? Safe around other men or no? How long hrt? When start, what take, how much dose? And other extremely intimate questions like these
It was a mortifying, nightmare fuel experience. I survived though, with some more traumas but oh well, therapists are eatin good lol.
Just venting honestly, to others who would understand. ❤️❤️
Hows everyones week so far?!
Also, fuck the police, dont ever talk to cops 🏳️🌈
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You survived. Fuck yea.
Honestly, it feels better maybe?? Like it was such a horrible experience and such pure distilled nightmare fuel that nothing in the real world could be that bad, right? Or atleast thats kinda where my brain is at now. Im wearing short shorts at the river and just dont give a fuck i guess.
I mean, seriously fuck those pigs for putting me through all that, im looking into a civil suit honestly. But after it all, this is what i wanted anyway. Just happened so much faster than i hoped. Like someone waxing you on the count of 3 but they rip it on 1 lol
Letting your brain chill for a while is wisdom. It can be unbelievably worse. Better to not perseverate on unknowns and what ifs.
Ah just got these questions today at work about what I plan to do for my transition. If I love men now… If I plan surgery. 😮💨
At least they will try to use my new name and gender me accordingly.
Fuck people who ask those questions. I just wanna be treated like any other human being. Im sure they dont ask cis people what parts they were born with
Fuuuuuuuck. I’m so sorry, you don’t deserve that, and all cop cars must burn with the police inside.
Make bacon!
yikes I’m sorry that happened to you. those questions are so horrible when you aren’t ready to answer them
Yeah, and like how am i to say i dont want to answer to them? They have the power to make my life miserable, i was afraid of that if i didnt answer their stupid questions. Didnt matter anyway, they made such a bid deal then misgendered me constantly throughout 🙃
My week has been filled with disgust at the hypocrisy in my office’s participation in the parade this weekend, because they only do it for publicity. A few weeks ago, I told one of the higher ups that certain individuals in a certain department talk with an offensive, hostile, transphobic jargon. Did they do something about it? Nope.
Anyway, I’m glad you survived. Police are pigs. (Sorry pigs 🐷🩵. You are not pigs.) You are a hero.
Pork pigs are cute and amazing creatures, state sponsered pigs are fascists in a neat uniform
Hear hear 😍
I am so, so sorry you had to deal with that nightmare. Those questions were incredibly invasive and out of line. Sending you the biggest hug if you want one, or just a ton of good vibes. Stay strong! 🫰
I love hugs! 🥰
It was humiliating, in a place full of people, asking these Q’s out loud in front of everyone. The obvious next step my friends say is a civil suit but idk. Seems like it would drag out the worst day ive had and end up not doing anything anyway
Id like an apology (fat chance) and maybe they can change policy. Huge doubts thatll happen tho
