i kinda want to go to a bar and socialize with strangers, but i have like no idea what im doing. i didnt really before transitioning but now i feel completely lost. if anyone could give me like a basic outline of the social etiquette it would help so much. i realize this is probably the most autistic question i could ask. it gives me so much anxiety even going to a bar, let alone trying to talk to someone.


I gave up. I cant hear anyone talk when the music is so loud so i just started trying hobby based spaces.
Also i cant stand dealing with a drunk person and trying to hold a conversation.