I know in theory what a chaser is but how likely is it that I will encounter them and what do I need to now ?

Im basically transfem and to formulate it as cringey as possible on a journey of self discovery.

  • theperfidiousOrbweaver [she/her, comrade/them]@hexbear.netEnglish
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    22 days ago

    I was affected similarly to you by her lesbian video and just thought you would like to know her full opinions on this. I agree with your assement of her.

    I mean, she doesn’t go into that some define gold star lesbianism specifically in a “has never touched a penis” way that is obviously transmisogynist, but eh, that is not exactly something i run into every day.

    I am not going to deny that there are women who claim gold star status who do so to communicate that they are not interested in people with certain genitalia. I’m not going to deny that there are trans women who’ve been rejected by lesbians who are using the term and this is probably quite hurtful to them. That does not then mean the term is inherently transphobic or that there aren’t trans women who identify with the term because they’ve only been with women.

    Also posting this part incase you didn’t see it.