HexaSnoot [none/use name]

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Cake day: August 22nd, 2022

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  • Are there any eras of beauty standards in China where it was considered attractive to have darker skin or be fat? Are there popular Chinese beauty idols showing either of those things?

    I don’t quite understand Chinese beauty standards because the pale skin thing doesn’t seem to have a connection to white colonialism. Sure it was a signifier that you weren’t a farmer and could stay inside all day, but people aren’t blind to the fact that dark skin is also attractive.

    And at some point in the past, at times of hunger during feudalism that could fall on both poor and rich families, long spans of hunger should’ve made fat women seem more desirable, right? I feel like these trends should change over time, but from what I’ve been learning, thin and pale with slender jawlines has been the mainstream beauty standard in China for a long time.



  • blob-help Even though I don’t research it, I have a fascination with ways people are colorblind. It’s less about knowing why they are. It’s more about me finding it endearing that they’d see a multiple colors from a packet of candy differently than me.

    Unfortunately a colorblind person once harmed and traumatized me, and they’re the only colorblind person I’ve met. Seeing what colorblind vision looks like online makes me love how interesting colorblindness is… But then I remember the person who harmed me.

    I wish I’d just meet a cool new colorblind person because it’d help me reclaim it. How else can I reclaim my fascination and endearment for colorblindness without yet meeting a new colorblind person?



  • I noticed while visiting Taiwan that there were a few repeatedly shown tantrums on fictional TV trailers. (Actors shaking body while bouncing up and down while yelling. One person fake-slapped another in the face during it.)

    And this bothered me about the TV there for a long time. I cringed because I’ve known people in real life who covertly abuse people like this, who try to hide these behaviors and polish up their act while in the public eye. I felt it was normalizing those behaviors.

    But today I find myself glad they show behaviors of covert abusers on TV. Although it’s triggering, I can see how it’s cathartic and can lead to productive conversations about how someone has hurt you. Often times American film trailers try to seem profound and epic, and it seems to lend a noble air to scenes of outbursts that are sandwiched in between. While I was in Taiwan these TV trailers didn’t try to surround them with glossy scenes and brilliant acting. They simply were people playing characters that looked like they were doing actual outbursts.

    Is this average Chinese TV for the masses, or is this mostly just Taiwan? Because I know Taiwan has a LOT more trauma with the White Terror, and it only makes sense that they’d need more cathartic TV.






  • thonk When I picture things in my head, I keep thinking Stalin and Fidel Castro are the same person, and Soviet Russia and Cuba are the same country. How do I seperate these people and places in my mind?

    If you can’t tell, I really don’t know much history and could use little bits of info at a time to build more distinct pictures of these two men and countries. If I am to be honest, I’m scared of reading the terrible struggles forced upon them and their people. It makes me very sad, but I will try to at least check a few small things out. I might be too depressed to read almost anything, but I figure there’s got to be something for me out there. It’d be nice if I got the fun/happy facts as well as the sad ones.




  • imo that’s a lot darker than just bad spray tan, has she acknowledged it since?

    If she has I haven’t heard of it.

    I lived with a white Tibetan Bhuddist for a while. They were constantly dehumanizing people around them, but then would do things like boast how Tibetans pray in simple shacks while Bhuddists in China have beautiful ornate temples. This was in response to me just having a video of a Bhuddist temple in China up on a TV. Someone told me she had a lot of anti-Chinese takes so this didn’t sit with me well.

    I didn’t say any of this, but looking back: Like really, you’re going to try to look humble by claiming you have anything to do with something humble? Also, what if the Dalai Lama had instead shared his wealth? What if they mostly worshipped in simple shacks because wealth was withheld from them? And what about the Tibetan Bhuddists who want to worship differently in a way that requires more resources and a highly artistic and ornate temple? People don’t need to be poor, there’s just the existence of capital, and capital has the tendency to collect more than spread.