• @Sidewalker@lemm.ee
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    628 months ago

    Have some humanity. I fucking hate Mitch and the GOP as much as anyone, but this seems like nothing more than a tragic accident. The woman had a family and Im grieving their loss. This sucks all around.

      • @Plague_Doctor@lemmy.world
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        618 months ago

        True, they were ready to send us all back to work at the start of the pandemic, no matter how many of us died or had family members killed.

      • @Guy_Fieris_Hair@lemmy.world
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        As seen in Isreal and the pandemic response. $$$$ is worth more than the life of minions to them. Humanity is better off without that scum.

    • @givesomefucks@lemmy.world
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      758 months ago

      She’s a fucking billionaire that spends holidays with Mitch McConnell.

      No one she knows gives a single fuck about you or anyone you know.

      And they’re actively hurting millions of people without a second thought.

      Don’t waste your pity on someone like this

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        38 months ago

        To be fair, the plea was for humanity, not billionairity. At some point this person was an infant and we’d protect and care about her then.

        Yes, the inequality is atrocious and her party is cruel and ruthless about expanding it, but therein lies the catch - we’re all gonna go some day. Right? Literally at the end of it we’re all the same in that regard. (cryogenicists and brain-in-a-computer people to the left)

        So I think it’s a crazy and sad story, I feel bad for the human, but the larger metaphor is ok to be temporarily amused by, imho. Y’know the problem with the French Revolution was they got really into beheading people. Children, pets, etc. Like, way more than anyone should, “even though” etc. Because if we lose that humanity we’re worse off than we are now, right?

        Anyway, don’t sweat the downvotes, humanity person. It’s just people being mad about billionaires, and who isn’t?

    • @zcd@lemmy.ca
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      8 months ago

      If you could push a button and get $1 million but a random person dies, would you push it? Billionaires are pushing that button all day every day, as many times as they possibly can

      • @Sidewalker@lemm.ee
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        18 months ago

        I would not push such a button.

        I don’t think the kids who just miss their mom this morning are undeserving of my empathy no matter how much money the mom had. I can’t just turn off how I feel about this. I am sorry I made so many here angry though.

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        Still , it’s not something I’d be comfortable laughing about.

        Edit: Seeing vs not seeing federated downvotes on kbin is really night and day

    • @ABCDE@lemmy.world
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      348 months ago

      Im grieving their loss

      That’s seems odd for someone you don’t know or care about at all.

      • @Sidewalker@lemm.ee
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        18 months ago

        I don’t know why, but it’s easy for me to imagine a person out there just grieving the loss of their mom this morning, and in turn imagining how I might feel in their shoes. It feels bad, and my heart does go out to them.

        I am sorry that I made so many people here angry, but I can’t turn off how I feel about it. i stand by it.

        • @ABCDE@lemmy.world
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          18 months ago

          I don’t think anyone is angry towards you. You can put yourself in their shoes but grieving is a pretty personal experience, usually because it’s someone you knew.

    • Hominine
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      Wow this thread is a straight condemnation of Lemmy’s high-horse. It’s wild that the comment above yours is neutralized on votes and yours is so far in the negative. What did you do that was so worthy of condemnation? Express concern for another human being’s family.

      Of course, people here will tell you that billionaires discount lives on daily even while they discount the lives of the loved ones of this woman. Were all of them billionaires? Perhaps. Regardless of the size of their pockets we do know that they are human.

      Folks that lean left generally understand what it’s like to be caught in the circumstances of your birth. It’s incredibly telling that this self-same group finds it so easy to dismiss the value of this human life and those around her.

      You’re right to be concerned for the well-being of others, and I believe I’m right to be concerned about the company we’re keeping here. It’s seemingly a group of people that will dismiss the death of someone wealthy, even while they assume the wealthy will dismiss the death of the poor. I wouldn’t say it’s entirely incorrect even though it’s just as morally bankrupt.

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          I fail to see how not having a modicum of empathy for this person’s family after their horrific death qualifies as “standing up for myself,” but do feel free to explain this worldview in detail.

          • @aStonedSanta@lemm.ee
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            128 months ago

            This person would have no second thought at you dying in this car. Or your family. Therefor you are defending and standing up for someone who would trash you. It’s just sad to watch from the outside is all.

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              This person would have no second thought at you dying in this car. Or your family.

              Even if this were true, are we to assume the same of this woman’s grandchildren? Her distant family?
              Regardless, I fail to see the need to laugh at a terrible death, and that is certainly not standing up for anyone’s moral compass but my own.

              The sad state of affairs here is how far you and others like you are removed from your humanity.

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                  No, the top level comment refers to laughter and that is specifically what I am speaking out against here.
                  And yes, I do have empathy for the family members of this woman and I find it telling that you let that slide by.

                  • @aStonedSanta@lemm.ee
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                    78 months ago

                    I haven’t let anything slide by. You are making assumptions about my character simply because I have no empathy for a single person because of their choices that led them to die. Again. I, Me, Santa did not say laughing is okay.

        • @intensely_human@lemm.ee
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          98 months ago

          Empathy is not the opposite of standing up for yourself, though thinking so does explain a hell of a lot of leftist politics these days.

          • @aStonedSanta@lemm.ee
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            58 months ago

            Depends on the context of the situation in my opinion but I understand where you are coming from. I’ve found if someone has no empathy for me. I should not return the favor to them as they’ve shown their hand. Does that make me spiteful? Probably. But I really love the quote. “Listen when someone tells you who they are”. As you can tell I’m callous and don’t have empathy for billionaires or ultra rich.

          • barooboodoo (he/him)
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            48 months ago

            This is hilariously stupid, like genuinely ask yourself how Rage Against the Machine would feel about a billionaire dying.

            • Trailblazing Braille Taser
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              Would you consider RATM an authority on how I should feel?

              I mean, fuck billionaires in any sense that actually matters. They shouldn’t get to hoard wealth while real people can’t afford housing, medical care, etc. At the same time, I refuse to laugh at a human being drowning to death. Literally nobody deserves that. I’m also morally opposed to the death penalty.

              Maybe I’m just not hardcore enough.

      • @aidan@lemmy.worldM
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        48 months ago

        So much online discourse I’ve seen on here is just the same as Reddit. Stripping the humanity of people you don’t like. It’s just tribalist, cringey, and narcissistic.

        • @ABCDE@lemmy.world
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          18 months ago

          Not really; did you grieve for people you heard of dying in the news the other day? Grieving isn’t just being sad for a brief moment then moving on with your day.

      • @Sidewalker@lemm.ee
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        38 months ago

        It’s okay. I realize lots of people are suffering and as a result tensions are high. I didn’t mean to make everyone so angry and I realize my initial comment of ‘have some humanity’ was to harsh. I’m sorry I made so many people angry with this.

        I do feel bad for the people that loved this woman regardless of how much money she has. I don’t wish that pain on anyone.

        • Hominine
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          18 months ago

          You’re fine, this gets out of hand quick and I ended up feeling for someone that was getting pilloried in the snap-back.
          Thanks for the thoughtful reply and have a great week.

      • @ABCDE@lemmy.world
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        18 months ago

        Folks that lean left generally understand what it’s like to be caught in the circumstances of your birth. It’s incredibly telling that this self-same group finds it so easy to dismiss the value of this human life and those around her.

        You seem to have attributed feelings of people here to one side or the other, how and why? Do you have a record of how each person leans politically?