Edit2: the ratio is amazing. I’m exhausted. This has quadrupled my hexbear time for the day and I will be limiting myself for a bit lol. I feel like we got somewhere in a couple of good threads thanks to Hellinkilla and ratboy. Good luck, comrades.
Edit: the rant wasn’t clear enough. In Previous struggles users have expressed frustrations with how mods/admin decisions are made. I would like to discuss how they are made and hear from them. Mods have also stated before that they wish we could be better, I’d like to hear how and know how they think this should be approached.
Rant/effort post coming:
What’s the follow up to the recent problems with how mods/admins have handled recent issues? Did I miss something? Can we get some explanations about how this site is structured and what roles we see for admins/mods generally?
history of struggle session, not necessary but gives context
We had a fairly large and fairly one-sided struggle session a couple weeks ago. Z_Poster was banned (and still is, as far as I know) and the emoji was added. Some users (thinking of @hellinkella, smong others) did some effort to really parse out where the pain points were and who was involved (largely Zionism inherent in some positions, Jewish exceptionalism). Only the emoji and banning occurred with no other promises/ideas from mods/admins.
There then followed a leak of mod logs where opinions were still very different than the userbase. I would encourage people not to open it or ask for it, please, and especially not to share it. But I think a significant amount of us did see messages that, regardless of context, gave an image of admins/mods that think the userbase hates them, disagreed with the userbase in significant ways, and which wants to steer us in a better direction. The mod chat was also absurdly active at the time, but there’s been little talk about what WAS discussed, only discussions about what was missed, where more context is needed, and things that were not done in a timely manner. This was not further discussed. (Personally I’m super appreciative of you all, doing work I don’t want to do on a website I enjoy thoroughly, and don’t hate any of you–including previous ones I’ve argued with, but would like to see some changes which will follow below and hopefully other comrades will add to it/change it for the better).
We had an EM/POC post which was tangential to that, but where there seemed to be large support for the userbase with regards to the ideological differences between mods/admins and the broader userbase. There was also a banning for which apologies followed quickly, but which indicates the structural failure more generally. There were of course other topics covered, which I won’t speak on here. I didn’t see any solutions proposed and accepted, from any of the topics relevant to this post. (Please correct me if I read this thread wrong, don’t want to speak for you, EM/POC comrades.)
Was there a follow up? Is that coming? Is the discussion behind the curtain of the mod chat? I understand you all have lives, so don’t spend all your time working on this, but some knowledge of how you’re working would be good. Otherwise it feels like purposeful pushing back of feedback/decisions so that we will forget the passionate feelings or give up. If that’s the goal, it’s a horrible strategy and should just be explicitly told. “3 months after a struggle session is the earliest we will make changes in processes” is better than nothing.
I would also recommend we have an open discussion about the direction of the site. It seems the mods/admins have indicated to have better ideas for what we can be (I remember this from the “dunk” discussions too), but have not made clear what their position in that is. Enforcers? A vanguard (with our input as leading determinant)? A different vanguard (against our input for but in our interests)? Theoreticians that have the ideas but want the users to take the lead? Knowing this would make clearer how to interact with you, and how to make our experiences better. Maybe we do need growth and improvement, but we haven’t been clear about how, and talking down is how most have experienced that. I already love this place, so when I’m frustrated I don’t think of leaving. But that’s not universal


Ack I read this earlier and had a lot of thoughts that I thought were good and constructive but now that I’m in front of my laptop my mind went blank. Still, I’ll try to make some coherent points lol. I spent a ridiculous amount of time trying to be thoughtful while typing this out so I’m sure people have already covered a lot of what I’m gonna say but I’ll send it anyway.
Direct Responses to your comment:
So besides the EMPOC improvement post, I don’t remember any of the other posts that you are talking about. Which one was the inital post? The one that got removed with the modchat screenshots? The first site improvement post? I went through hellinkillas post history and didn’t see anything resembling a post that has to do with what’s going on here. I don’t want you to go through the trouble of finding them for me, but I think this is kind of the problem. People bring up their concerns about mod cliques, favoritism, accountability, hostility towards the userbase, uneven comment/post removal and banning, etc. but those things are brought up in the shadow of other posts that are meant for other discussion (ie. the ND and EMPOC improvement threads), or through user posts that you brought up. But there has not been a big Community discussion explicitly about these grievances that is stickied and facilitated by the mod/admin team, and that is really what people want and why it keeps coming up over and over. I think that it is kinda different to have posts that say “how can we improve the experience for x or y users” and “we need to address the concerns you have about admin/mod behavior”. The first type of post, imo, only serves to get feedback on how to moderate behavior of average users, as opposed to the latter, which serves to discuss how to moderate admin/mod behavior.
So I think this problem stems from the feedback I gave above. When these grievances are aired in threads that aren’t explicit about accountability, I feel like a lot of that content can be glossed over and forgotten about, because that’s not what is being asked of in the post. This can make it difficult to have a structured, productive conversation when you feel ignored, and that compounds the problem of distrust. I think that giving a structured, focused forum for people to bring up these concerns may yield more concrete ideas.
I believe that the changes that you all have made have been great, but they do nothing to address mod cliques, favoritism, accountability, hostility towards the userbase, uneven comment/post removal and banning, etc. A lot of people have expressed that when they do air grievances, it’s nothing but radio silence OR, when it is not ignored, replies to these grievances only address the very specific example that a user might make. For example, someone expresses frustration about an unwarranted post removal, and a response might be “we restored that post”. Another example is someone asking why “User X” was banned but NOT “User Y”. The response might be “we ended up banning user y”. But really, it’s not only about frustration around the specific instance, but frustrations at the patterns of behavior by the mod/admin team and that is never directly addressed by the replying mod/admin.
Again, I think that changes y’all have made are excellent, and I think that even the strongest critics of mod cliques, favoritism, accountability, hostility towards the userbase, uneven comment/post removal and banning, etc. agree with that. I can sense exasperation here and that totally makes sense. I think you all are doing a lot to try to get community input and improve things! But since this specific topic doesn’t seem to have been addressed directly, you’re just going to continually hear these complaints in every community improvement thread, and that is gonna make it feel like no one appreciates the effort that you all put into this. And that fucking sucks and I can understand if it might make you or other people on the team feel frustrated, bitter, whatever it might be. And that might make people go to the mod chat to blow off steam. That’s a reasonable reaction to being continually criticized. But having those shit-talking sessions does nothing to try to fix this problem. It seems like no matter what it’s just a matter of time before chat logs get leaked and that just pisses people off MORE because instead of their very valid complaints being taken into consideration, they are being shown that they are just being mocked behind closed doors, and that reinforces the whole cycle.
I also want to bring up the banning of LY here as another example. So LY, an EMPOC, was commenting in the EMPOC improvement post with a criticism that they put a TON of effort into crafting which explained how EMPOC voices were being silenced and not taken into consideration. What happens? They get banned, with no explanation, in a post that is meant to address racism on the site. That ban was a perfectly ironic example of just exactly the problem of racism on the site. Nobody cares that you unbanned them, they decided to leave anyway because it upset them so much. It never should have happened in the first place. Unbanning someone does not mean that people within the admin/mod team has reckoned with mod cliques, favoritism, accountability, hostility towards the userbase, uneven comment/post removal and banning, etc.. The unbanning happened as a reaction to MASSIVE backlash amongst the users. Having EMPOC admins/mods is very important and it is great that they were elected by users. That does not fix this problem, though, as CommunistCuddlefish pointed out.
FInal Thoughts: People do not like that they do not seem to get engagement directly with mods/admins beyond a “we fixed that problem” comment. People do not feel that vague apology posts after the fact are adequate. People want DIALOGUE. People seem to prefer that problems that many have agreed are systemic get dealt with, instead of the admin/mod team having to play defense and clean up every time something shitty happens. I think that Maoists got it right with criticisms and self-crit. I totally get not wanting to take seriously comments that are unnecessarily hostile, but I think many people do not feel like their criticisms are taken seriously, and do not feel that the admins/mods have actually tried to engage in self-crit because they do not see these problems as systemic and are issues in the imagination of many users. I think that part of demonstrating that you have engaged in self-crit is not just relying on users to give you “concrete examples” of how to fix things, but to really investigate these problems amongst yourselves and suggest ways to improve trust and transparency specific to mod cliques, favoritism, accountability, hostility towards the userbase, uneven comment/post removal and banning, etc.. Some people have actually given concrete suggestions, and I have seen those shut down, so not sure how much users can really give that will be agreeable to you all.
Concrete suggestions:
maybe some kind of ongoing stickied posts with purposes like this could be good to solve for the lack of institutional memory. Then it will be easy to go directly to the stickied thread where all the mod accountability dialogue exists, all the struggle sessions, etc. Then all discussion outside of these spaces can be directed there to prevent post derailment, and all of the historic dialogue around it will be there so people don’t have to repeat or rehash out things as much or search deep to find it or be totally unaware it even happened.
Yeah I really think thats a good idea, hellinkilla mentioned that too. All of the different criticisms, lore, suggestions and improvements are SO dispersed that compiling all that stuff would be helpful for everyone.
I love what they are doing with specific community improvements but yeah I think even with maybe a yearly temp check that could really help. Could even have kind of a poll format to more easily organize where users are at. Underneath all of the individual complaints there are through lines that speak to just a couple specific issues so I could see that being an easy way to group things together
Thank you for being my literal better voice lol. Maybe the word I should’ve used waa “patterns” everywhere instead of talking about processes, because this works to explain my point really well.
I tried, oh how I tried lol. I cannot believe I hit the character limit too. It is kind of astonishing to me that so many people don’t understand what we are trying to convey, maybe it’s just because it’s note difficult to parse through text. Or maybe we really are the confused ones
Well just after posting this and getting almost universal “you are absurd, wtf” comments definitely made me confused. I’m still pretty damn confused hahahah but I did have an original notion of what I was talking about, just lost in the sauce since then
I can really understand why mods would be hesitant to agree to this. If I imagine myself under such scrutiny, it feels like physically painful. Given the hostility that comes up. The mod/admin team cannot be solely comprised of people with this very specific variety of public humiliation kink.
We need to find a way to walk step by step to a place that is amenable to this kind of thing. Without a lot of casualties every time.
I think that it would be better if the mods are considered to be mandated by the communities/users. So the accountability ought to be shared by all of us. Actually the present example of the
israel-coolemoji is such a great example. The userbase apparently had a real change of heart on an issue since it was originally decided years ago. At the same time as a lot of people around the world. The criticism was, ultimately, on the collective that consented/relented, even reluctantly, to the original “policy” of no burning israel flag emoji. Anybody could have submitted an emoji to /c/emoji during that entire time yet I don’t think anyone did. At least not that was brought up.I mean, my thoughts are that they already are constantly subjected to this every single day. Every community improvement post. Every meta post. Passive aggressive comments everywhere. So in my brain, finally satiating people’s want for an open discussion that is specific to this might be a way to “rip the bandaid off” so to speak. Like anything said in the post likely won’t be worse than what the poor admins have had to deal with for the last year or more, and itll be contained and maybe they can make more sense of the complaints.
At the same time I think it should be very tightly moderated when it comes to name calling and singling people out. Discussion should very specifically be about the problems, not specific mods/admins.
The only problem I see with simply voting in mods is that these complaints will still remain. They do that with admins already and it hasn’t resolved anything.
When it comes to the Israel flag emoji, there was a HUGE struggle session about it, and I don’t remember if there was an official stance on it, but the main emoji maker was someone who was against it and I think people just gave up on fighting about it instead of there being an actual decision. So to me that still just points to this larger problem that if people feel like they just have to give up instead of feeling heard, they will just grow bitter. However that mod did really think about this a LOT and to me it shows a testament to their ability to be introspective and I respect the hell out of that, regardless of the outcome.
I really see where you’re coming from and I don’t think that my position on this is more correct than yours. It can totally blow up, I do recognize that people turn nasty really quickly and idk if either admins/mods or users could handle this kind of conversation gracefully. It really would take a LOT of emotional intelligence and ability to express what the actual deeper problem is instead of just pointing fingers. I just think that we havent actually tried to do that kinda thing with very strict ground rules so why not when its been so messy doing it the way we have been already
Also lmao at your kink comment
Thank you very much for responding, I will read this in detail soon and respond appropriately
I’m so sorry for how ridiculously long it was, I didn’t go into it thinking it was a novel. I personally don’t expect a detailed response to it or anything, just trying to explain what Ive observed/interpreted from other peoples comments/complaints over time
No need to apologize at all, I greatly appreciate your words and perspective.