• FunkyStuff [he/him]@hexbear.net
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    Hahahhaha yeah there’s definitely no one in Norway who wants to get rid of all the brown people, queers, and communists! Everyone in Norway is just a reasonable, open minded Social Democrat.

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      Why the fuck do Norwegians care about Charlie Kirk?

      American cultural hegemony is so weird to consider when it extends to our political theater.

      Don’t you have your own weirdos? I’d figure you’d have like Brevik stans or whatever.

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        Not just this but the now-former leader of the Red Youth (youth wing of the furthest left party in parliament) was practically FORCED TO RESIGN for making a singular incredibly tame joke about Charlie Kirk’s assassination on TikTok. It was a huge scandal and the Norwegian news media has remained fucking obsessed with everything this 22-year-old has done with her life ever since.

        Neeeeei, vi hater dette landet som det faller neeeed………

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        Fascism is always astroturfed, and our modern day astroturfers are not very good at making bespoke propaganda for each country (well, there are local fascist astroturfers everywhere, but they may not have the kinds of platforms as the international ones)

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        People outside the US are propagandized to fuck and don’t know it. None of them actually know anything about the US, even a lot of the people who criticize the country.

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    Last year the heated topic at my family showdown was whether people deserve homelessness and poverty and this year it was whether the state should have the right to sterilize people who have lost guardianship of their children due to neglect.

    I tend to stand my ground until they lose interest in debate and I fucking know they will never change their minds on any of it - but it does become a topic that comes up later on as some form of, “Oh, that’s a touchy topic we don’t talk about that in front of [me]”

    Damn right you don’t, lmao, this is my domain. While you were passively and uncritically absorbing fascist culture, I studied the blade (systemic critiques of capitalism and their solutions)

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      It’s really annoying when they ask your opinion on something, you say something they disagree with, they have nothing to back up their beliefs, yet they just end the conversation and never change their minds. Family asks me how I feel about landlords. I say they’re leeches that contribute nothing and in the future, all tenants and workers should seize the property to live in it directly. “But they provide housing and maintenance!” I explain that the rent is far above the cost of maintenance, and the original price of the housing is irrelevant because the landlord gets to just sell the house eventually to recoup that investment. So they just end the conversation there (no counter argument at all!). No change of mind.

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        My personal favorite “pro-landlord” argument from my family is “but some people want to rent!”. Okay, so have social housing for them that rents at cost?

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        So they just end the conversation there (no counter argument at all!). No change of mind.

        Yeah but, think of how much cognitive dissonance they would feel if they accepted what you said as true. We can’t have that!!!

        It would set a terrible precedent! Because once you label landlords as useless evil leeches, who’s next? CEOs? SMALL BUSINESS OWNERS?!!??

        Next thing you know their whole worldview comes crashing down kitty-cri-screm

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        My SIL has a terrible habit of starting political arguments and then very quickly jumping to “I don’t want to talk about it anymore” the moment it becomes clear that she is in over her head, which is objectively hilarious. Wouldn’t want to accidentally hear something that makes her consider the contradictions in her beliefs.

        She has very little self-control - it’s like a bat signal goes up when she overhears someone talking politics that she disagrees with, she just gets dunked on every single time and still can’t help herself.

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          That’s very funny. I try not to be elitist, but honestly it’s hard not to judge people’s intelligence. It takes a very specific and malicious kind of stupidity to maintain chud beliefs. If you’re dumb and a kind/good person you’ll be a communist no doubt, or actually apolitical. “Why can’t we all just be nice to each other?!” As a genuine question, because it comes so easily and they struggle to imagine how others fail to do it. If you’re dumb and an angry little 12 year old, you’ll be a chud.

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        “But they provide housing and maintenance!”

        Had a landlord not pay his mortgage for a whole year while I was still paying rent. Didn’t find out until cops knocked on my door. I still have the paperwork so I can beat people over the head with it.

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    usually about toll roads and fishing quotas

    The only topic that I’ve heard Scandinavian politicians talk about is migrants and how they’re the bane of Europe and what program they’ll put in place to stop them from coming there.

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        This, this is called the myth of sameness that the local libs are very proud of. Translated to what it actually means is that everyone even remotely leftist, poor or marginalized is othered in a way where the ones with more power can say whatever without pushback, because “we are all equal here”.

        This is how an upper middle class person can moan about hard times in the same breath with an actually poor person who is starving, example: “Yes it is difficult, we have had to consider not doing three trips abroad yearly” in reply to “I can no longer afford food.” This is completely ok socially and if the poor person says something, they are the bad person who is being uncivil and ruining vibes.

        Also we should not forget the incredible history of violence that has ensured this “sameness”. It’s samenes for the upper class.

        And those of us who don’t agree can’t say anything or we get called Putins trolls and believers of Ruzzian missinformation, regardless of the topic. And then the nato-loving very serious and rational people start popping veins in their head.

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    “I’m privileged and I can’t imagine what it’s like to be either the target or have loved ones targeted by my government.” That’s what the person is saying.

    Willing to bet they enjoy the moral superiority they feel from it too.

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    My parents had one of those “political” marriages so luckily this was actually never part of any of my holiday memories.

    Political in this case means interracial in the 1970s. The uncool branches of the family got pruned long before I popped out lol

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      It’s typical of cishet WASP men (though a lot of WASPs in general) who are isolated from the violence caused by the system. They cannot imagine a world where they are on the receiving end of police brutality or an Amerikkkan military attack. They never have to watch what they say or think about where they go. Everyone actually affected by politics becomes an abstraction or hypothetical.

      tl;dr–

      (although it’s not really tl;dr because leftist memes lol)

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      The important thing is to continue the thought. Yeah in an individual level most of us don’t matter but that should be freeing, not something we allow to damn us to a life unfulfilled.

      In a year nobody is gonna remember you skipped the meeting to go skiing. But you’ll remember the feeling. Live your life, and remember not to overestimate your effect on and obligation to the world around you.

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      That’s not too far removed from “no lives matter.”

      I’m not sure that’s a road we really want to be headed down, even if we appear to be a good ways down that road already.

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    Threads is basically just Twitter but you exchange the extremely insufferable chuddery for extremely insufferable libbery

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        Won’t last. Their online existence is driven by conflict and once twitter turns into even more of a chud echo chamber they’ll get bored and invade threads as well.

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          Maybe. They’re basically parasites to social media that destroy everything they touch. So if Threads is the healthiest host for that, it’ll be that. They have Reddit, Facebook, Steam, and YouTube right now with a lot left to squeeze.

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    It is much easier to agree to disagree when your uncle isn’t voting to strip you of your civil rights

    Sighs this apathy for other people’s suffering is so tiring. “It doesn’t affect me negatively so it’s not worth shunning the imperialism-enabler” is not the moral victory this person seems to imply.

    I’m so tired of this, how do we change it? Does anybody have advise that has worked on helping people find a sense of solidarity?

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      So far, I’ve tried leading off with “Stalin did nothing wrong. Wait, I take that back – he did three things wrong. He was problematic on LGBT rights, he stopped at Berlin, and he died. But other than that…” on my dear, sweet, lead-poisoned narcissist mother, but it didn’t work. She just kept babbling on about how RFK Jr. is going to make everyone healthy by banning Takis, and she somehow thinks I’m a Republican (and not the Irish kind) because I called out Joe Biden for repeatedly walking back student loan forgiveness.

      We’re dealing with some uniquely fucked up people over here.

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        My grandparents aren’t even originally from the US, but they seem to have this very reductive “Democrat or Republican” false binary stapled in their mind. For this reason, back when I actually did talk to them, my grandparents would assume that I approve of every single policy Biden and Obama put in place because they thought that my opposition to the Republican party meant that I was staunchly in favor of Democrats.

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          assume that I approve of every single policy Biden and Obama put in place

          The reactionaries in my family assume because I am vehemently opposed to the Republican party, I must be some kind of SJW libslur soyboy. Their brains short circuited when I said I was against gun control and actually knew things about guns. They got really pissed when I said “Guns are tools, not toys.”

          They were so flabbergasted someone is against lowering taxes to cut education funding, then turn around and call Joe Biden a white supremacist. My “Mao did nothing wrong” jokes don’t land with this crowd, either.

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    I would be surprised if they would cut off their family members for supporting the South African white genocide. Every minority in the USA matters to these liberals, but as soon as they are beyond the country’s borders minorities are invisible, unimportant, expendable.