• Umechan [he/him]@hexbear.net
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    I got misdiagnosed with an overactive bladder 6 years ago when I was actually waking up to urinate 1-3 times a night due to having undiagnosed sleep apnea, and also going to the toilet 10+ times a day due to all the coffee I needed to stay awake.

    Big bladder doesn’t want you to hear stories of urological detransitioners like myself. The vesical industrial complex won’t stop until we’re all addicted to Toviaz. Don’t believe the lies that misdiagnoses are caused by failing and underfunded healthcare systems. They’re just trying to shield big urology from scrutiny.

  • It’s not just the anti trans playbook, it also used to be the anti lesbian and anti bisexual playbook, it’s the anti asexual playbook, it’s the standard treatment for any form of marginalization that has an element of closeting, denial and enforced masking. It’s also part of a wider mechanism of opression that is wielded against any marginalized group, epistemic injustice, the technique of taking away our ability to articulate our own experiences as meaningfully different from those of dominant society.

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      I hadn’t heard of epistemic injustive before, but I’ve seen that used against queer people so many times. So many people ask queer people “But what if you’re wrong?” as if there’s some kind of fine or prison sentence for incorrectly identifying as not cis or straight. Cishet people never get asked those questions even though incorrectly thinking you’re cishet when you’re not is far more damaging. The implication is that it’s better to incorrectly think you’re cishet than to correctly think you’re queer. It was far more common throughout history for queer people to lead double lives or go through life not understanding themselves, but some people expect us to believe that us being wrong about ourselves is a bigger danger/risk than living a lie.

      So much of the same goes for neurodivergent people. There were decades where people had little awareness about autism, ADHD, OCD etc. People went decades struggling and having no idea why. I got diagnosed with ADHD at 42. I paid 1000 GBP for a two hour assessment with a psychologist with 20 years experience because I knew I would have too many doubts about the diagnosis if I got it through a 30 minute Zoom call with a nurse that most of the people that go through the NHS end up getting. When the medication started working for me I realised how much anxiety I got from having neurological hyperactivity, but I still sometimes have doubts that the diagnosis was a mistake even though it clearly wasn’t. But still, we must think about all the poor neurotypicals that are being overdiagnosed.

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    Question is, why are they running this campaign? A general “we don’t like the idea of people not fitting in our little box” attitude seems like a very weak motivation for something with such a low visibility/ask. Is there sone state funding streams for ND services they want closed out of neoliberal austerity?

    Or maybe this isn’t adopting the detransition playbook, it is the detransition playbook. There’s an established correlation between autism and transgender identity, so creating a narrative that there’s an epidemic of autism misdiagnosis, suggesting ND isn’t “real,” then piggybacks into, trans identity must not be real as it’s part of the same “misconception.”

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      I think part of this is capitalism fighting against the idea that some people simply cannot fit into neoliberal capitalism. There are intractable differences between people that simply cannot be smoothed over by market relations, namely things like neurodivergance or being trans. One in three trans people have experienced homelessness, for instance.

      So neoliberalism has to instead propose these intractable differences aren’t shared by groups of people, but rather they’re just individual quirks and that any inability to operate within the market place is a moral failure.

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        Yeah, if the particular social mechanisms that reduce people to bipedal tools aren’t as effective and incorporation would require adjustments that might weaken your grip on the rest of the proletariat… then the capitalist logic is suppression or elimination.

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      There are so many possible reasons. Plain old ableism is one. Neurodiversity is also inherently in conflict with typical conservative beliefs about individualism and bootstrapping. The natural conclusion of the concept of neurodiversity is that neurodivergent people are not lesser, but are simply trying to function in a world that isn’t designed for them. Accepting that means accepting that not only should neurodivergent people be entitled to accomodations, but that everyone should also have access to affordable and good quality healthcare so that income is never a barrier to a diagnosis. If your worldview doesn’t accept systemic injustice and instead believes that we’re all individuals who succeed or fail based on own merits, then neurodiversity is going to be a threat to your belief system.

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        Ableism is the absolute bedrock of capitalism. The formation of value, through reference to a social average, rationalizes competition and the rejection of the “weak.”

        It is difficult to survive when you are being pushed beyond your dignity. It is downright impossible when you are pushed beyond your ability.

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          Absolutely. You’ll rarely see people openly admitting that the disabled deserve less, but they’ll adopt ableist tactics through dismissal/denial (disability isn’t that big of a deal, or disabled people are actually just faking it), or individualist thought terminating cliches (disabled people might be far more likely to be in poverty or unemployed, but we all have equality of opportunity, and you’re actually the ableist bigot if you think they need accomodations).

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            Capitalism is so rational that it won’t accept 80% of the average output from someone even if they are willing to do it. They only want your labor if you can do average or better. Anything less is grounds for dismissal if you even get hired at all.

            Quite apart from any human question of right to not work, or dignified conditions of labor, there is so much waste of labor power.

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      Disclaimer: Not all neurodivergent people, but they’re doing it because we’re a problem for them. We tend to group together, be highly educated, hyper-focused, creative, queer, stubborn, and have some form or another of hypervigilance/critical thinking skills and an increased desire for justice. They’re after autistic people because they can’t let these new types mess with their plans. They’d rather call them ill and teach them to mask again. We take what the science says as true, make it internal law, and won’t let their feelings (or lies) change our minds

      at least the high functioning ones.

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        We make good revolutionaries. My flippant comment on this mess and why they’re doing this? Someone besides us commies figured out just how many of our famous revolutionary leaders were probably not neurotypical. ND leftists have known that for decades, of course, but now the capitalists know it.


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      Some people want non-normatives to get back in the institutions and out of sight where they belong. Some people don’t want governments to pay for accommodations or in some countries, disability payments. Some people want to erode legislation protecting the disabled in the workplace (through stigmatising the perceived recipients) or to narrow the group that applies to (you’re not really disabled!) Some people want it to be cool to bully disabled people and find that (compassionate) recognition of disability increases public sympathy.

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      the stupid octogenarians still holding onto the reins of fascistic power will not digest and incorporate the idea of neurodivergence. young fascists are capable of not just living with the existence of autism but weaponizing its identity as well. those who fund them, however, can’t help but go back to the old classics of vaccines turning people autist.

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      Same. An official diagnosis gets me literally nothing except being on a list. I’m not in America but I am in the Anglosphere, so I’m being careful. Maybe when I was a kid, it’d have helped with accommodations, but not anymore.


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      Same here, as validating as a diagnosis would be there’s no way I’ll pursue one in this political climate. I’ll stick with my self-diagnosis and saying “I’m probably autistic”

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    Love being a Daily Chud writer and pumping out garbage articles, but then trying to make them seem more legitimate by going to the photo descriptions and referring to myself in third person as if I found an exact example of what I’m talking about out in the wild.

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    Oh yeah, i’m totally just following a trend with sensitivity to certain noises, my inability to parse social cues (sometimes, I’ve gotten better with this since finding out I was autistic) and encyclopedic obsession with tv, movies and video games

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    of course it’s on the free press lmao. i genuinely do not get how autism advocacy has hurt anyone but cranks that want to sell you autism cures. where does this hatred even come from?

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      Every minute spent on your support needs is a miminut not spent on capital. So the ideal solution is to convince themselves to burn out and then die so the lines goes up easier

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      my brother was autistic and the psychologists wanted to evaluate me, but my mom wouldn’t let them because as she said many years later ‘I didn’t want to have to deal with another’ which honestly fair enough with a husband that ‘had his life and she had hers’ traveling for work every week