btw is it just me, or are there less and less people on this website, all i see around me are familiar faces

  • dead [he/him]@hexbear.net
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    19
    ·
    edit-2
    19 hours ago

    I see a lot of users with like 1000 comments and close to 0 posts. Users are obligated to post the things that they want to see posted. If you (the girl reading this) are expecting something to be posted, then be the user to post it.

    It’s not hard to make 1 post a day. It takes like 10 minutes.

    Maybe you saw a really funny meme. Maybe you saw an important news article. Maybe you read an interesting blog post. Maybe you have a special interest. Search to see if it has been posted today. If it has not been posted, then post it.

    spoiler

    Avoid posting everything into the slop comm. With the rapid decline of Western Society, there seems to be a tendency to post everything into the slop comm. I believe that the slop comm should be focused on the bottom of the barrel to prevent it from being a catch-all comm. Slop should be a thing that would get you kicked out of a public space. Imagine you are in a coffee shop and making small talk with the barista. If you explained your post to the barista would you get kicked out of the coffee shop? If you said “I saw our president post some ai generated image where he was jesus. I couldn’t believe it”, you would not get kicked out of the coffee shop. If you told the barista “there’s a world of warcraft player who doesn’t shower and he wants to kill all immigrants”, you might be asked to leave the coffee shop.

    Chapo Trap House is a left wing political comedy podcast. It would make sense for posts that are funny and politics-related were in the chapotraphouse comm. Trump posting an image of himself as jesus, is something that they would talk about on Chapo Trap House.

    Don’t post screenshots of headlines without including the link to the article. The article headline and the article are written by 2 different people and many times the article headline can be inaccurate or not contain enough information. Don’t repost screenshots that someone else made. Link to articles.

    Make posts that you think are interesting. Make the title of the post contain key details about the post, sometimes articles bury the lede. Include keywords in the title or post body, so that your post is searchable. Don’t be afraid to comment on your own post to share your opinion about the post or include additional information. If somebody comments on your post to say that your post isn’t interesting, ignore them, they’re being a jerk.

  • LadyCajAsca [she/her, comrade/them]@hexbear.net
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    19
    ·
    21 hours ago

    to be fair, there’s just a lot of stuff happening in the world that will make you touch grass. I, myself haven’t been posting and commenting as much as I do before, I simply just don’t have much to talk about anymore, and academics (I’m still in that phase of life) are quite huge, and mount up once semesters start. It’s also a bit of IRL organizing that of course, you shouldn’t post too much about in Hexbear about it for OpSec reasons, and there’s not really much to look at and talk about (yet…) that would energize internet social medias like this.

    Like the US-Israel War of Aggression on Iran right? It’s still happening, but the website was quite active during it’s more turbulent weeks.

  • meatcringe [he/him]@hexbear.net
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    21
    ·
    22 hours ago

    Hexbear’s userbase waxes and wanes over the years. It’s also had more technical issues than usual lately (or it has seemed to). I wouldn’t read too much into it unless there is a profound decline.

    • LadyCajAsca [she/her, comrade/them]@hexbear.net
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      3
      ·
      10 hours ago

      In general, people will stick to communities and platforms they find, like, for example, many games I play don’t have a presence in lemmy because the fediverse’s concept itself is already very alternative because most people just join wherever their friends / co-workers are, which is the mainstream platforms.

      The rising costs of hosting your own server is also a factor, and generally, hexbear itself is more focused on politics, which is fine, but more niche topics or interests are lost, and only through dedicated posting can that be changed, but most hexbearians here obviously have IRL stuff to do, and not all of them share the same interests, such as the c/slop community. Some people like it (like me) while others don’t, and that’s also fine.

      But it’s that the tendency of ‘power users’ that have more free time and thus able to be more chronically online are also more reactionary due to how they got the money and time to do so, this is seen in reddit. The fediverse is like, maintaining an open source project. You can have donations, or even encouraged to work for various reasons such as ideology or use-value, but volunteer labour is very precarious especially in a time of crisis such as today, so it’s not entirely surprising users go offline.

      I think the Fediverse is a good concept, but, like the open source software is built on, it will only grow if it provides a genuine better experience than mainstream, which is why leftists and free software people go here since our priorities differ from those who stay at the mainstream platforms. The concept of an internet built on fediverse principles with state support is not fully realized yet, but I do think it’s possible, if the server hardware for it is still available, that is.

  • Infamousblt [any]@hexbear.net
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    33
    ·
    1 day ago

    We’re ever so slowly shrinking it seems. Feels bad man. Welcome back though I think if more people post then more people will be here so posting is praxis

  • Moomoo_Milk [she/her]@hexbear.net
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    13
    ·
    21 hours ago

    I just returned after a year and a half hiatus. It’s much slower than it was then. There are about 300-400 users/day less than back then. I couldn’t possibly tell you why it’s like it is, but it is. Because of the lower amount of conversation, I don’t see myself just hanging around on here for more than a few minutes like I used to.

    • Infamousblt [any]@hexbear.net
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      16
      ·
      edit-2
      20 hours ago

      My opinion is and has been for years that Hexbear has accidentally cultivated a very mean spirited community of people who are constantly trying to dunk each other, therefore leading to the nice people getting scared off and the mean people occasionally crashing out and getting banned. It’s hard to grow in those kind of circumstances.

      Honestly if we just started fostering a kinder community I think we would grow again.

      • tithonis [she/her]@hexbear.net
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        9
        ·
        17 hours ago

        I blocked /c/slop a while ago and I’m enjoying what’s left of hexbear much more. You’re right, though. At some point looking for stuff to be angry about just makes you angrier and bitterer than you were before.

      • Moomoo_Milk [she/her]@hexbear.net
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        10
        ·
        20 hours ago

        It couldn’t hurt. I left for similar reasons. The incident in question caused a very severe, negative mental state and I just had to stay away for a long time. I think I’m better?

        I remember sharing a few ideas a long time ago but I can’t possibly remember what they were. I think it was more involving admin/user trust or whatever.

        • Infamousblt [any]@hexbear.net
          link
          fedilink
          English
          arrow-up
          12
          ·
          19 hours ago

          Honestly the community just needs to decide to do better. Myself included. All of us. We just need to decide to be comrades. It’s impossible to moderate kindness in my opinion, it has to be something the community chooses.

          I know there are so many wonderful good hearted and kind people on this site. I hope the ones who like to fight and want to start shit and are always searching for the bad in each other can choose to think differently or not engage at all if they can’t.

          • Grebgreb [he/him, they/them]@hexbear.net
            link
            fedilink
            English
            arrow-up
            2
            ·
            5 hours ago

            It’s impossible to moderate kindness in my opinion, it has to be something the community chooses.

            idk, literally within the past eight days you, yourself, called out another user that, at this point, i can confidently say has a multi-year history of deliberately being needlessly and excessively hostile, dishonest, and pedantic. i think taking mod actions on a user like that would be a good place to start in improving the general atmosphere of the site.

            it has to be something the community chooses.

            some people just won’t choose this though and at that point the mod/admin team should choose for them.

            I hope the ones who like to fight and want to start shit and are always searching for the bad in each other can choose to think differently or not engage at all if they can’t.

            (temp) banning them would prevent them from engaging on that account.

        • AssortedBiscuits [they/them]@hexbear.net
          link
          fedilink
          English
          arrow-up
          5
          ·
          16 hours ago

          I think it was more involving admin/user trust or whatever.

          Well, a mod got banned for threatening to beat a user to death with a tire iron and an admin crashed out over an emote, so there’s that.

    • Super_Lumalo [he/him]@hexbear.netOP
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      10
      ·
      21 hours ago

      Same for me, I tend to frequent the trueanon subreddit more often these days. I think I’ll contribute a bit before the website just teeters out completely.

  • WhatDoYouMeanPodcast [comrade/them]@hexbear.net
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    14
    ·
    21 hours ago

    It’s because of… that user. It’s obvious who so I don’t even need to name a name. But because of that user making everyone uncomfortable there’s a chilling effect on posting.

    the person if you've been living under a rock

    ${user.name}

  • Hohsia [any]@hexbear.net
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    12
    ·
    22 hours ago

    Yup think about this too. Crazy how I was mocked relentlessly for using Reddit back in the day but how everyone and their mother is on that shit.

    Really fucking sucks how reactionary (and sometimes blatantly ignorant) the hive mind is

    • Lowleekun [comrade/them, he/him]@hexbear.net
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      10
      ·
      20 hours ago

      I guess I am “lucky” in the sense that I haven’t witnessed the height of activity and I am still satisfied. I don’t want to spend too much time anywhere so at the moment hexbear delivers pretty much what I want in terms of news. There could be more commenting going on, then again there often is not much to add to a news article. It really won’t help anyone if I write ‘death to isnotreal’ under every article about the entity.

      • tocopherol [any]@hexbear.net
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        28
        ·
        23 hours ago

        If other users are anything like me they may feel like they have reached the limits of online posting, I think about leaving here but I wouldn’t go to another forum I would just start posting IRL

        • MaoTheLawn [any, any]@hexbear.net
          link
          fedilink
          English
          arrow-up
          9
          ·
          19 hours ago

          I feel like also a leftist alternative didn’t exist online before, so this space satisfied that. Nowadays leftism has become more mainstream and there’s big pages on mainstream social media platforms that engage with it.

          I still appreciate Hexbear’s ML roots, it really cuts a lot of shit out, would hate to see it fully disappear.

          I also just think the core user base (myself included) just grew up. I’m now a person with so many responsibilities and aims in life that I don’t have time to post anymore.

        • SevenSkalls [he/him]@hexbear.net
          link
          fedilink
          English
          arrow-up
          7
          ·
          18 hours ago

          There’s plenty of hobbies I love to discuss that I have, that I still go to Reddit for because it’s got more activity. I don’t need a leftist perspective on Marvel Rivals, I guess.

  • Nomorereddit@lemmy.today
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    2
    ·
    18 hours ago

    Good, this dumpster fire being small and pathetic is what we like about it.

    Go back to Facebook or Instagram if you wanna do scroll.