I’m new as in this is my first day using lemmy. I don’t know anything about lemmy etiquette and don’t want to do anything bad

thanks and have an amazing day! also plz be kind :D

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    It’s pretty much the same but on Reddit it’s ok to be combative and rude with people as long as public opinion approves. Also most of the posts are bots so you aren’t actually being rude to a person there most times.

    Please don’t do that here. There are way less bots here so please remember you are speaking to actual humans.

    Also political discourse is mostly ok here. Same rules apply with rudeness though. On Reddit you will get quarantined or shadow banned quickly with anything politically charged.

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      What if someone doubles down on being an absolute tool, can I be rude about dismantling their personality then?

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        I’m a .ml because it was the second most popular instance when I joined, and I refuse to be bullied by other people tribalism to change to a different instance.

        (Although that /s… if you tried to joke with me, then I’m sorry, I was/am too tired to understand it)

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          Honestly I’ve found the effects are more personal. I like interacting with the sh mods more; they’re a good combo of decent morals but also playful irreverence. They don’t get on me for honest jokes, but they’re also very willing to be like nah buddy it’s time to log off for a few days when they need to. (Hubs prefers the Twitter format if anybody knows a masto instance with similar vibes)

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    Well here if you disagree with someone do not engage just insult their beliefs and type ‘tankie’…wait you’re on .world right?

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      stop calling me racist and engage with me!

      Same energy. If you’re getting called a tankie maybe stop simping for authoritarian regimes.

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    Welcome! Lemmy is like Reddit was in its infancy.

    Don’t be a jerk and you’ll be fine. :)

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    Me too! I have been browsing for a month or two and Reddit finally had enough of my “violent rhetoric”. This is like my second post.

    So what I am gathering is that here I CAN say that I believe that the only solution to capitalism is a revolution so violent and thorough that Mao would be uncomfortable?

    Or nah?

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      Not only can you say it, you can get temperate responses and arguments on the subject and not the person. Sure, we have to deal with some absolutists like on .mil, but after a few weeks of blocking the bad actors, this is a really refreshing environment.

      Edit: and to OP on .ml, that wasn’t against you. Be sure to search around for areas that interest you, it can be sparse but there are some real gems here.

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    It’s fairly strafight forward, i just try and follow these two rules.

    1. Don’t be a cunt
    2. If in doubt, refer to Rule 1.
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    By ratio, there are way more communists than on Reddit. There are three major groups, anarchists, Marxist-Leninists, and liberals, and each instance tends to have more of one or maybe 2 than the others. Getting a feel for instance culture goes a long way.

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    Don’t do shit like “lemmy etiquette”. Just follow human etiquette and be a pleasant human and everything will be fine.

    Also stop worrying so much about “doing anything bad”. Sometimes you fuck up, sometimes you upset people, it’s no big deal. You’re good.

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      I’m a pleasant human but find myself often downvoted for what I consider an average social democratic view; taking the viewpoint that, in my country, cops are generally trustworthy, the market works when regulated by a well functioning democracy and it’s ok to be wealthy, but expect to be properly taxed.

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        cops are generally trustworthy

        Oh man, you must not deal with cops a lot.

        the market works when regulated by a well functioning democracy

        I see you believe in fairytales

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          Or I live in a country with better cops than you?

          In terms of delivering the highest proven outcomes for the broadest amount of people I’ve not seen evidence that anything beats a well regulated market. If new evidence is presented I shall gladly revise my opinion.

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            Or I live in a country with better cops than you?

            Not sure the country you are referring to exists. Maybe Japan?

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        those views are considered heinous on many lemmy instances, that’s why.

        the lemmy hivemind is largely socialist/communist, or at least anti capitalist. it’s also intolerate of anyone with moderate or conservative viewpoints on social and/or economic issues.

        just accept that and ignore the haters. most instances desperately need more diversity in their viewpoints.

        the good thing is unlike reddit, you won’t be banned for having a different point of view.

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    As long as you have irrational levels of hate and vitriol for AI, windows, epic games, and democrats, you should be fine.

    It also helps if you’ve named any of your sex toys things like “Linus” or “Gabe” and you regularly scream their names during orgasm but that’s optional.

    Lot of people seem to be acting like none of this is true. Clearly we aren’t on the same parts of lemmy.

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        Oh true, when you scream Linus’ name out in your bed, make sure you add an addendum of “no not that one he’s an asshole, I mean the Linus who isn’t an asshole”

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        This post is on ml, I figured that would be clear within maybe 10-15 seconds of opening the comment section of any thread regardless of topic 😜

        Although I do think lemmy on the whole hates democrats more than republicans. Like the republicans are subhuman mole creatures who just need love to stop being evil while the democrats are soulless people who know what good is and think they’re good but they aren’t.

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          Republicans tell me to my face that they want to destroy me and the people I love

          Democrats think I’m too stupid to notice that they’re also trying to destroy us, and that just pisses me off

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          The democrats are easier to hate because they act like their your friends, at least the republicans are just full mask off and will say you’re a fucking subhuman. For reference, I think they’re both abhorent, just that republicans don’t lie to you about it.

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      Be trans, use arch, and also be a communist (not the naive, idealistic kind, but the kind that defends Putin and modern day Russia)

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      Death all pigs and their families and train their dogs to piss on their mass graves, then abuse the shit out of them, make that grave pissing and dog fighting other pig-dogs their only pleasure until they get too old or you get bored of beating them every day and you drown them in their own piss.

      This is .ml so you can say that here, but would probably get you banned on Lemmy.world. because of federation different communities have different admin regimes so it’s polite to check. Some instances may not take kindly to the kind of boot licking reddit requires.

      It’s also like 30% less misogynist and waaaaay waywayway less queerphobic here except for a couple bullshit explicitly nazi servers nobody federates with.

      Don’t be too much of a sanctimonious shitlib. Please. Won’t get you banned most places but a looooot of people will block you.