• somename [she/her]@hexbear.net
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    I’ll go against the grain and say I don’t like this. It’s just going to fuel gamer misogyny more. She had a dude playing for her. It’s like a confirmation of all their shitty opinions.

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      This is like when Israel does the most comedically anti-Semitic stereotypes like poisoning wells and using baby sounds to lure out more victims.

      It’s bad folks. Leaning into reaction isn’t good. You aren’t owning the chuds by proving them correct and giving them propaganda, you are just fueling reaction

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        No, that is insulting to the victims of the genocide. When Israel did this (and still does), it was horrible, because of what they did (and still do) to the Palestinians. Not because of “painting other Jews in a bad light”. Frauding gamers in this way is almost a victimless crime. No comparison.

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            You can’t seriously compare this one woman profiting off of misogyny with an entire system that devalues antisemitism through forcing the label on resistance against genocide. The issue here is not Jewish people playing into bad stereotypes, the issue is the genocide itself and maybe secondary all authorities forcing people to choose between supporting a genocide or being deemed antisemitic.

          • Certainly doesn’t help that amerikkka and eu-cool have done everything they can to silence not only Palestinian voices but antizionist Jewish voices too so those who do oppose the genocide are just screaming into a void where no one can hear us

            doomer I just want the crimes against humanity to stop

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      Misogyny is never okay. Even if the victim is a fraud. If a man cheats or fakes, he doesn’t represent his whole gender and has to take no blame for putting anyone in a bad light. He just represents himself. What does her being a woman have to do with her success or failure or fraud in anything she does? This is victim blaming, because on top of (maybe fair) repercussions for faking, she is victim of hate that has nothing to do with her fraud and everything to do with her gender.

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        It’s not victim blaming. It’s just acknowledging the misogyny pervading gaming spaces, and how this act will intensify it. It’s not victim blaming to be frustrated about this, as the ramifications of this act will worsen conditions for women in gaming.

        Ultimately the people at most fault are those doing the misogyny. That isn’t this person’s fault at all. But they did take actions that will intensify it, for their own personal gain. Being annoyed at them for doing this isn’t a symptom of latent misogyny. It’s just analyzing the action in the context it happened in. It’s about not ignoring the effects of an individual’s actions on the greater environment.

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          I understand your desire to see everyone united in a common struggle. But if we were, the struggle would already be won. That’s also part of the context. She gets to choose her own fights and is not duty bound to any party line and even if she were, a line that says “no cheating in gaming if you’re a woman, but it’s fine for men” would be ridiculous.

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        he doesn’t represent his whole gender

        And either does this woman. So why is calling her out “misogynistic victim blaming” if her actions don’t represent her whole gender? We are the ones trying to disentangle the actions of one person from her entire gender, it’s those in this thread cheering this on that are conflating it just like the chuds do - just with the opposite opinion on whether it’s good or bad.

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          We are the ones trying to disentangle the actions of one person from her entire gender

          Not at all. Of course, calling her out for taking is fine. This entire discussion is about putting additional blame on her, because she’s a woman and “causing misogyny on other woman” (she’s not).

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            Yes I don’t think she should receive any additional blame, to be clear. It just seemed like people were completely dismissing the idea she did anything wrong at all and it was misogynist to even mention that fraud and cheating is wrong, and she did let her team mates down as it reflects on them if they knew about it and tolerated it. Any additional hate from gamers she receives is bullshit, I want to be clear. Leave her alone (after banning her from esports lmao)

            Was more lamenting the sad reality that gamers will go hog wild with this.

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        Victim blaming? What? She chose to do this lol.

        I’m not crying over the sanctity of esports or whatever, or her getting a bag, but that doesn’t mean I like the effect it’ll have. The things it’ll intensify.

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            The women who receive misogyny are the victims. This specific fraudulent woman, who we are blaming for the actions she committed, is not the victim. So it’s not victim blaming. Saying that this woman and all women are the same thing is the exact same categorical error that chuds make. You are using THEIR logic of all women being the same to say this.

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              If she becomes the victim of misogyny then she’s a victim of misogyny. Her scam does not justify misogyny towards her. That’s the same fallacy people use to justify the deportation of latinx people who voted for trump.

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                Yes, if. She is not, though. If that happens and people start saying it’s her fault, that would be victim blaming. Saying that she contributed to rising misogyny for her own benefit outside that context is not victim blaming because she isn’t a victim.

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                  I don’t know how you expect any woman with a public image to do anything without getting misogynistic backlash. Even moreso in the gaming community. That she will be a victim of misogyny as a result of this outing is a given.

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                We aren’t being misogynistic towards her. We are just saying she directly contributed to increasing misogyny for her own personal benefit, which is not good. That doesn’t excuse misogyny, at her or any woman. It’s just a statement of fact that she behaved selfishly, in a way that will harm other women.

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                  I’m not claiming that you are being misogynist. I’m claiming that you’re blaming the wrong person, who is also a victim of misogyny, for said misogyny.

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              No, that’s not true. There are thousands of men in gaming who cheat and commit fraud. She is totally the victim of way more hate than other (male) fakers get usually, because she is a woman.

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              I don’t like blaming the person who used a system of oppression to her advantage. Fighting the oppressive system is not done through uplifting ‘good’ and fighting against ’bad’ examples of women gamers. It’s done through fighting the actual people who keep the system in place, and in this case that is absolutely not this woman.

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                She did the equivalent of pulling the ladder up behind her. She is making it harder for every other woman who wants to compete in these leagues. There was no emancipatory or political nature to her decision. It was entirely self interest at the cost of other women.

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                  No, she has no responsibility for the actions of men who actually make it harder for other women. Instead, they could just make it harder for frauds of any gender.

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                  I don’t agree with that comparison at all. That comparison is used for women who get in powerful positions and then contribute to the oppressive system. For example, a professional woman gamer who denies all the factors that contribute to the low amount of professional women gamers and claims that women are bad gamers and that she’s an outlier. If this woman made such claims then I’d agree with you, but otherwise she’s just someone who selfishly played a system that is oppressive towards women. She’s not a liberator or an activist, but she’s also not protecting the oppressive system.

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              No, she is not responsible for any misogyny. How could she, if she’s not misogynistic. If she were partly responsible, that would mean, the men who actually act out of hate would now be less responsible. You’re not just blaming the victim, you’re also excusing the perpetrators.

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    Scamming gamers is based as hell.

    What the fuck were they going to use the money for anyway, buy a third RBG LED keyboard? Another fucking funko pop?

    Salute to a real one

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    Everyone who headshots me is a soft aimbotter.

    Every sniper who hits their shot is aimbotter and every sniper who doesnt have 100% accuracy should uninstall

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    For some reason i find gamer stolen valor kinda hilarious and i wish i knew anything about games to make an apt analogy about disembarking on bideo game normandy or some shit like that.